She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Well you could try... I'm gonna rank them to my preference.Master Bates said:
Well Nagoya is in Aichi-ken, personally I think it's like any mid-sized Japanese city. It has some old culture like Nagoya castle. If are interested in Tokyo and Yokohama I wouldn't really recommend Nagoya. Almost every Japanese city is the same once you get out of Tokyo. Only a hand full is different, IMO the most America or Gaijin friendly places are in Tokyo, Yokohama and Saitama.Master Bates said:
Just out of curiosity, what is it about Saitama that makes you mention it out of all other cities in Japan? I ask because you rank it up there with Tokyo and Yokohama. Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Well just like Yokohama it's like an extension to Tokyo. It's very urban but it's much cheaper to live there. Some parts are that are near the river are suburban. It really has a laid back feel to it. It only takes about 10 min to get into Tokyo. If I was a broke college student and couldn't live in Tokyo, I would pick Saitama or Yokohama since it's just like living in Tokyo. Saitama has all these new construction projects too, it's gonna be one of the hot cities soon. Saitama city is new, they started construction in 2004. The neighborhood are NICE, it's like a really cool neighborhood in Minnesota. New saitama city is the sh*t, it's very Americanized. You should def check it out.Master Bates said:Bumping again.
-edit- I was looking at a list of cities by population that screwed me up, I thought saitama city was much lower than it is. Still, I'm interested.
http://rover.up.seesaa.net/image/83j83b83N83V83e83B96E98Ci82P.jpgMaster Bates said:
Are you a car enthusiast? You are in for some huge fun! They tolerate zero drunk driving, but other than that it's like driving in Germany. It's awesome, paved streets and nice cars. Government set it so every car has to get a minimum of 30 miles per gallon. The underground and night driving is the best part IMO. Also going to clubs and strip clubs are cheap compared to the U.S. I would still advice getting sh*t faced before going to clubs since you can buy handles for 10-20 bucks at any supermarket. You can be drunk or high in public and as long as you aren't harming yourself or other people the cops will leave you alone.Master Bates said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You can get high in public without getting hassled? I've heard the opposite- that they're extremely anal about drugs there, including weed.Nip/Tuck said:
Where did you hear that? You are allowed to grow marijuana if you get a permit. I highly doubt 90% of the public even knows what weed smells like. They got head shops (Freak Brothers Roppongi) on main streets... granted not a lot of people smoke weed there, but drug use is pretty huge in Japan. Especially Tokyo, ecstasy, coke and speed are pretty big because of the Yakuza and rave/ clubs.Master Bates said:
whats up with you, hyori lee and korean chicks?? you got a kimchi fetish or something??I love Hyori Lee said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Lol!Nip/Tuck said:
Brown / Curry Fever = Arabic or middle easternmichaelhctam said:Lol!
Yellow Fever = Asians
Jungle Fever = Africans.
What is it called for Arabic or White girls?
