"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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January 16 BootCamp

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I guess it doesnt really matter, i was just thinking so people keep it all one page and so we can go back and read how people have come along. and so people dont post in the wrong spots and such.

but I dont really care that much, so whatever

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'm not really following this EC and "Hello".

I just meet new people and if I feel like talking, I talk.. and do what I can in terms of convo. Otherwise, I say "Hello, how are you? Good? See you later..." and move on. I'm just using this as practice until week 4. Then the real challenge begins. (for me)
 

IS|Reinhart

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Originally posted by brucevangeorge
I'm not really following this EC and "Hello".

I just meet new people and if I feel like talking, I talk.. and do what I can in terms of convo. Otherwise, I say "Hello, how are you? Good? See you later..." and move on. I'm just using this as practice until week 4. Then the real challenge begins. (for me)
still if u want in this bootcamp you would have to try to do same stuff that we are doing here. Working as a team helps us to motivate each other.
 

johnmich

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My computers bin knackered for the las week.

Here it is. Im catching up so will be days behind you. I will follow you all but just later on. This is because im starting the BC 8 days late but will still post progress.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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