"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Guys, as PUA's etc, we should be following the idea of James Bond. I watched 'Casino Royale' another time today, and imagined being like him, cool, confident, sexy, deep sexy voice, well built body, ****y and funny, protective(women feels protected), playful, dangerous, etc

Hopefully, we can all aim to be like him, can anyone else add some traits of James Bond we should be aiming for?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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...except he got duped by the chick in Casino Royale...what a chump.

"Now you done scratched me balls..." Damn that would hurt...

Indiana Jones is a way better example of a DJ. He doesn't give a damn about the women, he just does his thing and they tag along for the ride. And he deals with the stuck up princess type perfectly in Temple of Doom.
 
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James Bond comes across as: "There's nothing I can't handle. If you like me, great but even if you don't that's good too." In the back of his mind he knows he'll get the girl - even if she actually hates him at first. A good example of confident persistence.

Polite, exudes charisma, mysterious and a good lover if you're looking for additional words to describe his character.
 
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I really wanna be his character, I dont wanna be aclone or a Film nerd that copies quotes and etc, but I want to adapt his traits to mine, as I like the way he is. I know this may seem drastic to many of you, thinking, your good as you are etc, but this is what I want.
 
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He has a great presence about him, I've been watching all the Bond movies since Casino Royale came out. It's just a movie.... he didn't go AFC for that chick. And actually I think that part is the beginning of his womanizing because he got so burnt "bytch is dead". They had to have a reason for him being a ladies man I guess.

He's an actor pretending to be someone and we believe he is that, and when he gets in the role he believes that. That's the lesson here. You can do it too.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MooseGod said:
...except he got duped by the chick in Casino Royale...what a chump.
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I thought that said "dumped" when I first read it and thought it was hilarious
 
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SilverSonnet said:
I really wanna be his character, I dont wanna be aclone or a Film nerd that copies quotes and etc, but I want to adapt his traits to mine, as I like the way he is. I know this may seem drastic to many of you, thinking, your good as you are etc, but this is what I want.
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I want a toilet made of gold but its just not in the cards now is it?

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Well which is it baby, spits or swallows?
 
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Roger Moore is a good example of FUN ****y and funny. A lot of people think he wasn't a great James Bond, but having the box sets and seeing him play that role in the context of a DJ the guy is smooth.

These are actors pretending to be someone. People look on the screen and think they are that way. They take aquiring those traits very seriously... they have to. It's their job. If the audience doesn't buy their character then they will probably be out of a job.

Then you start believing you are that type of man.. holy crap.
 
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I'm not on about the traits of the actors who play the roles, I'm on about the traits of James Bond. I'm not a Film geek who wears glasses, has goofy teeth, and wishes he was someone else, 'cos I'm not. I'm a DJ, who wants to integrate James Bond's traits into my own. What are your views on this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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James Bond isn't real. The best you can do is emulate the actors who are playing.... a fictional character.
 
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Which is what I was talking about, lol.

Anyway, have fun with it.
 
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