"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Guys, as PUA's etc, we should be following the idea of James Bond. I watched 'Casino Royale' another time today, and imagined being like him, cool, confident, sexy, deep sexy voice, well built body, ****y and funny, protective(women feels protected), playful, dangerous, etc

Hopefully, we can all aim to be like him, can anyone else add some traits of James Bond we should be aiming for?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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...except he got duped by the chick in Casino Royale...what a chump.

"Now you done scratched me balls..." Damn that would hurt...

Indiana Jones is a way better example of a DJ. He doesn't give a damn about the women, he just does his thing and they tag along for the ride. And he deals with the stuck up princess type perfectly in Temple of Doom.
 
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James Bond comes across as: "There's nothing I can't handle. If you like me, great but even if you don't that's good too." In the back of his mind he knows he'll get the girl - even if she actually hates him at first. A good example of confident persistence.

Polite, exudes charisma, mysterious and a good lover if you're looking for additional words to describe his character.
 
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I really wanna be his character, I dont wanna be aclone or a Film nerd that copies quotes and etc, but I want to adapt his traits to mine, as I like the way he is. I know this may seem drastic to many of you, thinking, your good as you are etc, but this is what I want.
 
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He has a great presence about him, I've been watching all the Bond movies since Casino Royale came out. It's just a movie.... he didn't go AFC for that chick. And actually I think that part is the beginning of his womanizing because he got so burnt "bytch is dead". They had to have a reason for him being a ladies man I guess.

He's an actor pretending to be someone and we believe he is that, and when he gets in the role he believes that. That's the lesson here. You can do it too.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MooseGod said:
...except he got duped by the chick in Casino Royale...what a chump.
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I thought that said "dumped" when I first read it and thought it was hilarious
 
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SilverSonnet said:
I really wanna be his character, I dont wanna be aclone or a Film nerd that copies quotes and etc, but I want to adapt his traits to mine, as I like the way he is. I know this may seem drastic to many of you, thinking, your good as you are etc, but this is what I want.
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I want a toilet made of gold but its just not in the cards now is it?

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Well which is it baby, spits or swallows?
 
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Roger Moore is a good example of FUN ****y and funny. A lot of people think he wasn't a great James Bond, but having the box sets and seeing him play that role in the context of a DJ the guy is smooth.

These are actors pretending to be someone. People look on the screen and think they are that way. They take aquiring those traits very seriously... they have to. It's their job. If the audience doesn't buy their character then they will probably be out of a job.

Then you start believing you are that type of man.. holy crap.
 
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I'm not on about the traits of the actors who play the roles, I'm on about the traits of James Bond. I'm not a Film geek who wears glasses, has goofy teeth, and wishes he was someone else, 'cos I'm not. I'm a DJ, who wants to integrate James Bond's traits into my own. What are your views on this?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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James Bond isn't real. The best you can do is emulate the actors who are playing.... a fictional character.
 
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Which is what I was talking about, lol.

Anyway, have fun with it.
 
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