"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Jahidi's Workout and Diet Journal

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TUESDAY

Incline Bench Press 3 x 5
155 x 5
165 x 5 PR
165 x 5

Calling it a PR because it's the best I've done using full range of motion.

Dumbbell Bench Press 4 x 8
65 x 10
65 x 9
65 x 8
65 x 8

Military Press 3 x 8
85 x 12
85 x 10
85 x 8

Tricep Pushdowns 3 x 10
110 x 10
110 x 10
110 x 10

Russian Twists 3 x 10
35 x 10
35 x 10
35 x 10
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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THURSDAY

Squat 3 x 5
255 x 5 PR
255 x 5
255 x 5

Hyperextensions 3 x 10
75 x 10 PR
75 x 10
75 x 10

Dumbbell Row 4 x 6
85 x 6
85 x 6
85 x 6
85 x 6

Dumbbell Curl 3 x 8
35 x 8
35 x 8
35 x 8

Leg Press Calfs 3 x 15
210 x 15
220 x 15 PR
220 x 15
 

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SATURDAY

I forgot that the gym closes at 6 on Saturdays, and I showed up at about 5:30 so my workout got cut short (it usually takes me about an hour to get through everything). I did the two bench presses and then I had about 5 minutes left and the power racks were all taken so I skipped military press and did triceps instead.

Barbell Bench Press 3 x 5
175 x 5
175 x 5
175 x 4

Not counting the last rep of the last set because my spotter didn't know how to spot and helped when it wasn't necessary. Not sure if I could have got the rep out on my own.

Incline Dumbbell Bench Press 4 x 8
65 x 8
65 x 8
65 x 8
65 x 8

Tricep Pushdowns 3 x 10
110 x 10
110 x 10
110 x 10
 

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TUESDAY

Deadlift 3 x 5
315 x 5
315 x 5
315 x 5

Got it, and it was noticeably easier than the last 2 tries. On to 320...

Leg Press 2 x 10
360 x 10
380 x 10 PR

Chin-ups 4 x 6
bw x 6
bw x 6
bw x 6
bw x 6

Hammer Curls 3 x 8
35 x 8
35 x 8
35 x 8

Leg Press Calfs 3 x 15
230 x 15 PR
230 x 15
230 x 15

My weight is hovering around 140-141 right now btw, so I've gained just over 10 pounds so far.
 

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Whats that diet looking like
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Diet is going okay, I'm doing the simple starting diet but I've been slacking a bit. I need to eat more veggies and I sometimes miss the 6th meal in the diet because I'm too full and just go to bed. And I've never tried drinking olive oil yet.

I'm eating about 3500 calories per day, sometimes more if I'm hungry but I tend to get full easily and struggle to finish my meals.



7am - Wake up
7:30am - Shake (2 scoops whey, 4 raw eggs, 3/4 cup oats, 500ml milk)
10am - Banana (this is just a quick break at work so I can only eat something small)
12pm - Beef, potatoes, veggies
4pm - Shake ((2 scoops whey, 4 raw eggs, 500ml milk)
7pm - Beef, (I sometimes have veggies with it but I'm slacking with eating veggies. I know I need to eat more of them.)
9pm - Same shake as above
10pm - Chicken (this is the meal I sometimes miss)
11pm - Bed
 

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jahidi said:
Diet is going okay, I'm doing the simple starting diet but I've been slacking a bit. I need to eat more veggies and I sometimes miss the 6th meal in the diet because I'm too full and just go to bed. And I've never tried drinking olive oil yet.

I'm eating about 3500 calories per day, sometimes more if I'm hungry but I tend to get full easily and struggle to finish my meals.



7am - Wake up
7:30am - Shake (2 scoops whey, 4 raw eggs, 3/4 cup oats, 500ml milk)
10am - Banana (this is just a quick break at work so I can only eat something small)
12pm - Beef, potatoes, veggies
4pm - Shake ((2 scoops whey, 4 raw eggs, 500ml milk)
7pm - Beef, (I sometimes have veggies with it but I'm slacking with eating veggies. I know I need to eat more of them.)
9pm - Same shake as above
10pm - Chicken (this is the meal I sometimes miss)
11pm - Bed
Do you work everyday? You could do something called carb cycling which may make things easier for you. It can be setup many ways, for you i'd say 3high carb days, 2 moderate carb days and 2 low carb days. Its a lot to write out here just let me know if your interested i could set you something up.
 

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I work Monday-Friday 9-5. Just an easy desk job to pay the tuition for when I go back to university next month. By all means if you think carb cycling would be good for my situation, tell me what's involved and I'll do it.
 
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