"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i've set up both 2 dates so far, do i let her initiate the 3rd?

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after my first date with this hb7, which went well and ended with a nice kiss, i had to text her the next day and say i had a great time and we should catch up again, which we are this weekend, but i don't think i can keep doing this after the 3rd.

if the 3rd date goes well, do i stop contact with her and wait for her to initiate our next date?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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no, continue taking her on dates and escalate sexually. Remember to make her say "NO"
 
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She's showing up. She's responding well to you. Why focus on something as small as who's inviting who?
 
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well at least if she asks me for once it might show me something from her side, like highly interested. unless she wants me doing all the asking, sheesh :/

i remember the last girl i was with use to call me almost everyday or text me to see how i was. did all the asking for us to catch up. that was awesome.. wish all girls did that.
 
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