"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i've set up both 2 dates so far, do i let her initiate the 3rd?

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after my first date with this hb7, which went well and ended with a nice kiss, i had to text her the next day and say i had a great time and we should catch up again, which we are this weekend, but i don't think i can keep doing this after the 3rd.

if the 3rd date goes well, do i stop contact with her and wait for her to initiate our next date?
 

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no, continue taking her on dates and escalate sexually. Remember to make her say "NO"
 
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She's showing up. She's responding well to you. Why focus on something as small as who's inviting who?
 
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well at least if she asks me for once it might show me something from her side, like highly interested. unless she wants me doing all the asking, sheesh :/

i remember the last girl i was with use to call me almost everyday or text me to see how i was. did all the asking for us to catch up. that was awesome.. wish all girls did that.
 
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