"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i've set up both 2 dates so far, do i let her initiate the 3rd?

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after my first date with this hb7, which went well and ended with a nice kiss, i had to text her the next day and say i had a great time and we should catch up again, which we are this weekend, but i don't think i can keep doing this after the 3rd.

if the 3rd date goes well, do i stop contact with her and wait for her to initiate our next date?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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no, continue taking her on dates and escalate sexually. Remember to make her say "NO"
 
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She's showing up. She's responding well to you. Why focus on something as small as who's inviting who?
 
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well at least if she asks me for once it might show me something from her side, like highly interested. unless she wants me doing all the asking, sheesh :/

i remember the last girl i was with use to call me almost everyday or text me to see how i was. did all the asking for us to catch up. that was awesome.. wish all girls did that.
 
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