"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I've read this several times but never heard it explained...

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that sleeping less, like 6-7 hours a night, is better for your confidence

now I always just figured it meant that you are awake longer so you have more time to be out in the world building confidence

but does it have another meaning? like some sort of bodily functions like too much sleep has some chemical meaning?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sleeping less makes you more sleepy. Fact.
 

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Originally posted by Panda 2000
Sleeping less makes you more sleepy. Fact.
+Cranky

You'll end up scarin/pissin girls off, because of your attitude.
 

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Originally posted by Panda 2000
Sleeping less makes you more sleepy. Fact.
no, that is not a fact. I find it to be the complete opposite in fact. Once I get into a rythm of 6-7 hours of sleep I am far more awake and balanced during the day than if I slept for 8-9 hours.
 

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Yes, because you're in rhytm and because you sleep for approximately the same amount of time every day. I tried adjusting to sleeping like 8 hours per day regularly and I felt a lot better than when I slept 6 hours per day regularly. But due to my schedule and my unwillingness to sleep I'm back at 6 now.
I think it's the thing where you feel fine but there's still a little sleepiness inside of you that you're not completely aware of, but it's there.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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panda,

I was referring to when I were in 8-9 hour cycles.

it may also have something to do with the fact that between the age of 15 to 19, one does seem to require more sleep than otherwise.

If you actually want to get up early in the morning (I do, as I love mornings) then try getting a 20-30 minute nap between 15.30 and 18.00 and there really should be no problem keeping up a lower sleep routine.
 
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