"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've read this several times but never heard it explained...

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that sleeping less, like 6-7 hours a night, is better for your confidence

now I always just figured it meant that you are awake longer so you have more time to be out in the world building confidence

but does it have another meaning? like some sort of bodily functions like too much sleep has some chemical meaning?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sleeping less makes you more sleepy. Fact.
 

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Originally posted by Panda 2000
Sleeping less makes you more sleepy. Fact.
+Cranky

You'll end up scarin/pissin girls off, because of your attitude.
 

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Originally posted by Panda 2000
Sleeping less makes you more sleepy. Fact.
no, that is not a fact. I find it to be the complete opposite in fact. Once I get into a rythm of 6-7 hours of sleep I am far more awake and balanced during the day than if I slept for 8-9 hours.
 

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Yes, because you're in rhytm and because you sleep for approximately the same amount of time every day. I tried adjusting to sleeping like 8 hours per day regularly and I felt a lot better than when I slept 6 hours per day regularly. But due to my schedule and my unwillingness to sleep I'm back at 6 now.
I think it's the thing where you feel fine but there's still a little sleepiness inside of you that you're not completely aware of, but it's there.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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panda,

I was referring to when I were in 8-9 hour cycles.

it may also have something to do with the fact that between the age of 15 to 19, one does seem to require more sleep than otherwise.

If you actually want to get up early in the morning (I do, as I love mornings) then try getting a 20-30 minute nap between 15.30 and 18.00 and there really should be no problem keeping up a lower sleep routine.
 
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