"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"I've never been loved like this before"

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Qmanchoo

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Care to give any context? That can mean different things based on how long you have been seeing a girl...to the way in which she said it (insecure look, excited, happy, that zoned out mode where they get a "deer into headlights" look)...to when and where...

From my personal experience...I'd say she may have had "not so nice" boyfriends in the past and wonders why you're treating her so well, she my not think she deserves it and it may confuse her a little, but she's attracted to you and as a result you can get away with it without her seeing you as a not-so-sexy nice guy...at the moment anyway.

but without context that my not hold much water.
 

jago25_98

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I didn't give context deliberately because I wanted to see what comes out without a full picture first of all. Sometimes a lack of information can give a clearer picture.

It was a while ago while I was in a relationship.

It just jumped into my head because I wondered if it challenges the DJ side of looking at things, or if it's negative. I just thought, is it a good thing?

Because of this I feel thinking nice guy vs bad boy could be an error. Perhaps both elements are seporate but not exclusive. Sure a badboy may be bad at good guy stuff and vise versa but you can get the best of both worlds.

i.e you don't have to choose to be a badboy or a good guy

? agree ? because if so that goes against the grain of a lot of intferances made on this site...
 

bullmoose

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Jesus Holy $#!+ Christ. ASK HER WHAT SHE MEANS. She's obviously wanting to tell you about how you're different from the last guy who thumped her muffin, so get the dope. NEVER let a comment like that slip by.
 

Luveno

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It means she's really happy at the time.

OR

She's been happy with you many consecutive times.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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