After some 20 odd years of zero luck with women, the boards and a 6 month long program of weight lifting has helped turn me around. After this past summer, where I did nothing but work out and talk to girls, I came back to college. One of my long time friends, who I've known since freshman year (junior now) was suddenly, surprise surprise, attratcted to me. I've known her long enough to make sure shes not crazy, and she spent the summer working out as well, so she's become quite fit.
That was perhaps two months ago, and we've been dating since then. This is my first LTR and I'm a little at a loss for what to do to keep her intrest up. I'm still thowing out C&F, working out, and making sure she knows my school work is more importent then her. But I'm really unsure how much I should be seeing her at this point. In the past, when we were platonic, we saw a good deal of each other - 5 -7 days a weak, sometimes more then once a day. I've scaled back by a good deal now that we're dating, but I'm still seeing her 2-3 times a week.
Because we're both busy with clubs and schoolwork, the only real time I get to see her is the weekends. For most of the past two months the pattern has been to go out with my male friends during the night, and then meet up with her later and spend the night at her place, eat breakfast/brunch with her and some other friends of ours and then head home. It doesn't feel too much to me like a pattern yet, but I'm worried that sex 3-4 times over the weekend + 2 nights spent in her room is too much too soon.
Was I right to scale the amount I see her back? is the bulk of the weekend too much time for a 2 month old relationship? How do I keep the relationship alive and exciting for both of us despite this 2 year history?
She constanly tells me how much she likes me, and thinks like gets goosebumps when I touch her. So I must be doing something right. I'm still exicted that my long dry spell is broken. At first I was just looking for some practice, but I feel like I"m starting to catch oneitus and I'd like to keep this from crashing and burning
That was perhaps two months ago, and we've been dating since then. This is my first LTR and I'm a little at a loss for what to do to keep her intrest up. I'm still thowing out C&F, working out, and making sure she knows my school work is more importent then her. But I'm really unsure how much I should be seeing her at this point. In the past, when we were platonic, we saw a good deal of each other - 5 -7 days a weak, sometimes more then once a day. I've scaled back by a good deal now that we're dating, but I'm still seeing her 2-3 times a week.
Because we're both busy with clubs and schoolwork, the only real time I get to see her is the weekends. For most of the past two months the pattern has been to go out with my male friends during the night, and then meet up with her later and spend the night at her place, eat breakfast/brunch with her and some other friends of ours and then head home. It doesn't feel too much to me like a pattern yet, but I'm worried that sex 3-4 times over the weekend + 2 nights spent in her room is too much too soon.
Was I right to scale the amount I see her back? is the bulk of the weekend too much time for a 2 month old relationship? How do I keep the relationship alive and exciting for both of us despite this 2 year history?
She constanly tells me how much she likes me, and thinks like gets goosebumps when I touch her. So I must be doing something right. I'm still exicted that my long dry spell is broken. At first I was just looking for some practice, but I feel like I"m starting to catch oneitus and I'd like to keep this from crashing and burning
