"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've hit the turning point

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Yesterday I hit breaking point, I've decided that I don't want to be the nice guy anymore it's taken 18 years to realise this, and 4 months lurking on this website to really get me going.

It happened with me sitting in an English class with 7 girls and a teacher. There are no other guys in my english class anymore just generally high quality girls, two HB8, two HB7 and two HB6 with one girl a HB2 who doesn't talk to anyone. So I was sitting there talking with these girls and then one of them starts talking about her guy problem, getting followed around at a nightclub and once she started about a guy they all did.

And then it happened, i even saw it coming and still did nothing. One by one each of them asked me what I thought about their particular guy. i answered with the answer i thought they wanted to hear.:mad: I realised I was being the emotional tampon, and it has disgusted me, i don't ever want to be in that situation again, surrounded by good quality girls and instead of leading them and being alpha being their little emotional buffer.
1-0 to the DJ in me finally waking up
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The road is long and dificult. The only thing i can tell you is dont give up. I dont know how many times i could of given up but i didnt. And it feels so ****ing good.
 
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Lol, that would have been a perfect opportunity for a ****y joke!

The possibilities are endless...:D
 
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My friend, this is where all the fun begins.

It is going to get tough however the outcome of the process is f****** fantastic.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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thanks for the support guys, and i'll definatly try and think of something better to say if it happens again ;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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