I've hit absolute rock bottom, need to completely start over

[HardTimes]

Socially, I have hit as rock bottom as you can get. Effectively I have both no girl or guy friends anymore. Two of my best friends are married so hanging out with them is random and not reliable and my other group of friends are huge flakes when it comes to me and im only invited to hang out with them every once in a random while (basically they aren't my real friends). Absolutely no female friends, not even one.

Basically I need to completely start over and build a new social circle from scratch and I don't really know how to do that at 28 years old. Work is not an option for various reasons I don't want to get into, and im not sure where I can meet single guys my age that are interested in going out (as gay as that sounds). Basically I just need a completely new reliable set of single guys in their late 20s/early 30s.

I've thought about using craigslist m4m section but I don't want to meet a bunch of dudes that are going to end up trying to fvck me in the ass.

 

[Prodigy746]

What kind of hobbies do you like?

I say join some clubs or start hobbies where you can meet people.Be social and fun and you will not have any problems making friends.

 

[cola]

man.. if i read one more help me please post from you..
dude..
get a makeover
hit the gym
start washing your balls
and stop whining that simple..

being clingy with people who dont want to hang with you on a regular basis is pathetic especially at 28.
you make social groups not join them..

meaning..
you take 1 guy from one circle you like
introduce him to another guy from another circle you like and boom
yove created a clique..

and guys are just as approachable as women infact..
when i go out i small talk with guys who seem to be the life of the room and often
they introduce me to a female friend or two in the room..

sorry didnt mean to be hard at you in the beginging of the post but you remind me of myself(i dont whine as much as you.. i get layed.. im not 28 and i have guy friends) but qhere you do remind me of myself if your a thinker and not doer. i know for a fact you know how to solve those problems you have.. you just choose not to. some people like misery and maybe thats you..

 

[MyBloodyValentine]

ya man there are always plenty of options. join a new club, get a new hobby etc. sh*t, why not move to a new city? making friends and meeting people is only as hard as you make it.

 

[vagrant]

I don't know how much you love basketball but going into a basketball court somewhere after 3pm will definitely do the job. Bring a ball and shoot around. Next thing you know you got guys shooting around all over the place. I go alone all the time yet there hasn't been a time when I didn't get to play 1 on 1 or 2 on 2 or 5 on 5. I never made a real close friend there but that's only because I never put my focus on it. Starting tomorrow though I'll definitely try to make friends that I can bring with me at starbucks or barnes and noble or something.

 

[DonJuan11]

- 28 years old.
- I have both no girl or guy friends anymore.
- Two of my best friends are married so hanging out with them is random and not reliable
- my other group of friends are huge flakes
- absolutely no female friends
- Work is not an option for various reasons

I just need a completely new reliable set of single guys in their late 20s/early 30s.

We don't have the red pill from the Matrix to introduce you to a reliable set of guys in their late 20s/early 30s who can take you to bars and get you laid. We can only do so much.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

I have someone on here that's competing with me.

1) http://www.meetup.com (Meet-up you can meet up with various groups of people for fun) -- never tried it, but hey you can.

2) http://www.cuddleparty.com (Cuddle party -- you problably need a female friend to accompany you to get into these or you'll likely be in a waiting list. )
-- I wouldn't touch it with a ten foot pole, but if you want to try it, try it out!

3) Go to the gym and work out. You'll feel better and you can meet new people.

Read other threads on here about meeting people.

 

[Alle_Gory]

I have someone on here that's competing with me.

Yes we know. You and Caped are tied for first place loser title.

Can a mod let us all know, why despite protests from countless members, why Luke Skywalker is still an active member? I don't see the difference between the rantings of an unstable man and regular spam. Maybe someone can explain this to me.



Hard Times. Don't worry buddy. Chill out and focus on the goal. You want a social circle, that's all you need to think about. Craigslist is not an option. You're only going to find desperate people like you right now. Harsh but true.

What about at work? Try to socialize with those people. Hang out, and network. They might not make good friends, but they might introduce you to people who might. Gym is another good place. Start talking to the guys there. Ask about their training, get some advice, then talk about other subjects... etc. Just get a connection of some kind going and mold it to what you want. What about other places?? Start brainstorming and go out and talk to people.

Hope that helps some.

FYI, be wary of who you take advice from on these forums. Like this fake ^ above.

 

[Daydream Engineer]

Yes we know. You and Caped are tied for first place loser title.

Can a mod let us all know, why despite protests from countless members, why Luke Skywalker is still an active member? I don't see the difference between the rantings of an unstable man and regular spam. Maybe someone can explain this to me.

Special people have the right to be on this form too because they make us have a chuckle one in a while. I agree with you thou.

Hard Times. Don't worry buddy. Chill out and focus on the goal. You want a social circle, that's all you need to think about. Craigslist is not an option. You're only going to find desperate people like you right now. Harsh but true.

What about at work? Try to socialize with those people. Hang out, and network. They might not make good friends, but they might introduce you to people who might. Gym is another good place. Start talking to the guys there. Ask about their training, get some advice, then talk about other subjects... etc. Just get a connection of some kind going and mold it to what you want. What about other places?? Start brainstorming and go out and talk to people.

Hope that helps some.

FYI, be wary of who you take advice from on these forums. Like this fake ^ above.

Luke Skywalker is a Class A ^