"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've had enough

AFK Protector

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You know I came here because of girls and did everything for them and read all this stuff for them and everything and you know what? It really hasn't taken me anywhere. I'm going to focus on myself more and keep ladies on the backburner from now on because there are bigger things in life than pvssy. I guess I've had enough of this seduction business and now just want to get on with my life and be the best I can be without this fake confidence and appearing calm and appearing disinterested stuff.

I'm tired of having all the answers and I'm tired of all this theory that others like Pook, Nocturnal, Sammo, Newman, Fingz, and Eternal have fetched for me. I want to go out and make mistakes and experience on my own and create my own set of values and beliefs to follow.

Don't get me wrong. this place is the best goddam place I've come across and I've learned a lot, but now I feel as if I've moved to a level that's beyond women and beyond the outer shell of everything. Yep, that's it. good luck to all you aspiring DJs.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mr. Debonaire

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Originally posted by AFK Protector


I'm tired of having all the answers and I'm tired of all this theory that others like Pook, Nocturnal, Sammo, Newman, Fingz, and Eternal have fetched for me
TRAITOR!!!

BLASPHEMY!!!!

HERESY!!!

:D
 

Climax

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Chilax!;)

AFK Protector: I think that you are taking this DJ stuff a little bit to seriously... its not meant to become your life and tell you that the world is JUST about p0e$y, its meant to be a guide for you, a way to enable you to understand "women" better than other guys out there. By knowing DJ or not, u would be doing the same thing with girls, just with DJ you will probably be more succesfull with your attempts on approaching girls. DJ doesnt tell you to go out there every day, all day and persue women, its just a guideline for WHEN U DO WANT TO PERSUE women. You will still be making mistakes and learning from them, and you will be able to create your own set of values and beliefs to follow. DJ is mearly a guideline and i think that perhaps you just took it a little bit TOO seriously. I'm not saying that DJ shouldnt be taked seriously at all, but there are limits to everything;)

Well whatever you decide to do, i wish you the best of luck for the future, and a happy life...

Laterz...
 
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