Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Cancel this man at once! He dares to question the groupthink.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I've had enough
- Thread starter MatureDJ
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Let’s just try and respect everyone’s opinion without stooping to personal character assassinations.
We are here to learn and provide opinions about game, relationships and seduction, not to referee squabbles between posters.
We are here to learn and provide opinions about game, relationships and seduction, not to referee squabbles between posters.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
This thread is pathetic and really encompasses the state of the site and modern dating
No wonder all the vets left, time for me to take a break too lol
No wonder all the vets left, time for me to take a break too lol
Gamisch
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Nah wasn't a fight. I've been
The mods asked me to leave him allme so I did just that.
It's crazy how men prioritise the wrong shyte tho. Gotta have you **** together before even THINKING about entering the game. Yes there will be exceptions , but they are rare.
I leave it at that. Shalom
BaronOfHair
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Nah, we're just indicative of the cultural climate that's swept over The English Speaking world. Reminds me of a chat I had with a family friend the other day... Dude's making 8 figures at Google, laments that he has no disposable income, yet is somehow able to afford the newest game systems, several streaming services, and dinners at the most expensive restaurants in town
Point out to this fella that his lifestyle choices deplete the amount of disposable income he has, and you're met with wails of "You just don't understand the Structural Oppression I deal with on a daily basis!!!"
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bokanovsky
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I can't be the only one confused by this thread. What are you girls arguing about?
Solomon
Master Don Juan
I miss this guy