"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"I've had bad experiences giving out my number"

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I think I F**cked up again but here it goes. (at least I did better than before)

Walking down the study area of the library and I see this girl, so I sit across from her, but the problem was that at this seat, the sun was blasting through the window. I knew this would have distracted me from studying, so I immediatly moved. I got another seat and sat down, but then I realized I was too hungry to study. So, I go back down the halls toward the exit passing this girl again and she smiles at me then looks down.

So I approached her and talked to her for 4 minutes. After a minute she was like "It was nice talking to you," then looks down at her book. But I proceed to talk to her anyway. I introduce myself and we talk, then again, she says "we'll it was nice metting you." Then I ask for her number

Me:Let me get your number
Her: Let me get your number
Me: No
Her: Why not
Me: Because that's not the way things usually go...just give me yours.
Her: I don't give out my number. I'm not going to do it.
Me: Why not?
Her: Because I've had some bad experiences doing that

Pause and look at her weird (I was starting to think she was a weird/psycho girl at this point. I then, however, think "Maybe I"m being too sensitive and letting my ego get in the way" which leads to...)

Me: Ok, then give me your email

She gives me that look like why are u pushing this

She then writes it down

Me: Also write your name on here, thank you.

Then she does it

Me: Good luck, bye
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Mercenary

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she wasn't giving you many signals...
she tried to cut the convo short and you had to push it to continue... it happens to everyone.

yeah, i hate it when you ask and they are like "give me YOUR number"... flat out saying "no thankyou" would be much easier.
 

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I was in the state of confusion because as I think I said in my post she directly made eye contact and smiled at me as I was walking by her.
 

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So I approached her and talked to her for 4 minutes. After a minute she was like "It was nice talking to you," then looks down at her book. But I proceed to talk to her anyway. I introduce myself and we talk, then again, she says "we'll it was nice metting you." Then I ask for her number
You should've gotten the clue at this point.
:rolleyes: She wants to study.

Let her go or you'll come off desperate. And so you did.
 

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She did like you but obviously she was busy at the time and you kept pushing it. You could've tried convo'ing about what she's studying etc maybe get something in common throw in a little jargon if you know what you're talking about etc. Nice try though.. keep it up!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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