"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ive gotten to picky

SnowBlind77

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after reading all this material, and putting it all out there, i honestly dont like any of the girls around me. Maybe its cuz i got out of a really seriuos relationship just over a month ago....but like...i dont know. all i see in these girls are their faults, and no matter how hot i think they are, none of them are girls i really want to try and go for. maybe i just need a change of scene, but its like....i want a girl, but none of the b*tches i see around me


anyone know what i mean?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SnowBlind77 said:
after reading all this material, and putting it all out there, i honestly dont like any of the girls around me. Maybe its cuz i got out of a really seriuos relationship just over a month ago....but like...i dont know. all i see in these girls are their faults, and no matter how hot i think they are, none of them are girls i really want to try and go for. maybe i just need a change of scene, but its like....i want a girl, but none of the b*tches i see around me


anyone know what i mean?
You have come to realize what a prize you are yourself. You see how none of their looks mean a darn thing.
 
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