"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ive gotten to picky

SnowBlind77

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after reading all this material, and putting it all out there, i honestly dont like any of the girls around me. Maybe its cuz i got out of a really seriuos relationship just over a month ago....but like...i dont know. all i see in these girls are their faults, and no matter how hot i think they are, none of them are girls i really want to try and go for. maybe i just need a change of scene, but its like....i want a girl, but none of the b*tches i see around me


anyone know what i mean?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SnowBlind77 said:
after reading all this material, and putting it all out there, i honestly dont like any of the girls around me. Maybe its cuz i got out of a really seriuos relationship just over a month ago....but like...i dont know. all i see in these girls are their faults, and no matter how hot i think they are, none of them are girls i really want to try and go for. maybe i just need a change of scene, but its like....i want a girl, but none of the b*tches i see around me


anyone know what i mean?
You have come to realize what a prize you are yourself. You see how none of their looks mean a darn thing.
 
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