"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I've got little "confidence"

nightcrawler

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..if you know what I mean. I mean it's not tiny but it ain't big either.

I'll be honest, the reason I don't have a girlfriend is because of this. It makes me feel like I'm not good enough.

I think this is just the product of watching too much porn. I bet if I had not watched so much of it I wouldn't have this thought in the back of my head 90% of the time and would be shagging right now.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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floydtheater07

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Stop watching so much porn and learn about fingering, eating girls out, etc. I'm average bordering on small but I've got tons of confidence in the bedroom because I know that no matter what, I can get a girl to have multiple orgasms easily.
 

nightcrawler

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Seems to me like women put so much emphasis on the bigger penis though.

"I want a MAN"
"size matters"

Listening to girls making fun of guys with small/average penises, etc.
 

bigshot

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Its how u can perform in the bedroom my brother, quit worrying ;)
Im not the biggest, but im not the smallest!

Hold ur head up high and go learn some techniques ... heres one to start u off:
http://www.redtube.com/2325
 

Bvbidd

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They do make fun of guys with small d!cks, they just shouldn't know until it's too late and your doing other things.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ersit

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muhuwahaha said:
Seems to me like women put so much emphasis on the bigger penis though.

"I want a MAN"
"size matters"

Listening to girls making fun of guys with small/average penises, etc.
When it comes to listening to advice about women, you should only trust straight men, maybe lesbian women, and women that are at least 30 years old.

Women DO want a man. They don't want a little puppy dog. They don't want the puppy that follows them around, begging for acceptance.

By the time you get into the bedroom, she's not going to see/feel your penis and suddenly be turned off unless you have something SERIOUSLY wrong.

You don't have to be sought after by women all over to have confidence. Confidence isn't knowing that you'll succeed every time, it's knowing how to deal with failure.
 

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How many flat girls do you know? Plenty i'm sure.

Some people are 'blessed' whereas most people aren't. What's more important than anything is that you're comfortable with what you do have and you can use it as best you can. As long as you do that the girl's gonna be singing your praises, not complaining about size.
 

Maxtro

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Uh, not quite the same thing comparing breast size to penis size. Breasts can all do their natural job equally well no matter how big or small they are. Penis size is directly correlated to a womans pleasure. Smaller men have to work much harder to give a woman as much pleasure that a larger man might give buy just doing the basics.

BTW men have varying tastes in breast size. Lots of men like big ones and lots of men like small ones. I doubt you will find a woman who says she likes small penis.
Looks < Use
 

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The only way to get over this is to make sure you enhance your oral and manual skills on women. And get over the psychological hurdle too. You must feel confortable withyuorself, and be sexually confident.

You can do it. It is possible.
Do the things that you need to do to get ahead in life, but do the things you need to do to enjoy YOUR life. This makes you a Man of high value. Make them feel you. Make them feel good just by being around you.
Bring Value to them.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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