"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've got little "confidence"

nightcrawler

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..if you know what I mean. I mean it's not tiny but it ain't big either.

I'll be honest, the reason I don't have a girlfriend is because of this. It makes me feel like I'm not good enough.

I think this is just the product of watching too much porn. I bet if I had not watched so much of it I wouldn't have this thought in the back of my head 90% of the time and would be shagging right now.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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floydtheater07

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Stop watching so much porn and learn about fingering, eating girls out, etc. I'm average bordering on small but I've got tons of confidence in the bedroom because I know that no matter what, I can get a girl to have multiple orgasms easily.
 

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Seems to me like women put so much emphasis on the bigger penis though.

"I want a MAN"
"size matters"

Listening to girls making fun of guys with small/average penises, etc.
 

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Its how u can perform in the bedroom my brother, quit worrying ;)
Im not the biggest, but im not the smallest!

Hold ur head up high and go learn some techniques ... heres one to start u off:
http://www.redtube.com/2325
 

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They do make fun of guys with small d!cks, they just shouldn't know until it's too late and your doing other things.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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muhuwahaha said:
Seems to me like women put so much emphasis on the bigger penis though.

"I want a MAN"
"size matters"

Listening to girls making fun of guys with small/average penises, etc.
When it comes to listening to advice about women, you should only trust straight men, maybe lesbian women, and women that are at least 30 years old.

Women DO want a man. They don't want a little puppy dog. They don't want the puppy that follows them around, begging for acceptance.

By the time you get into the bedroom, she's not going to see/feel your penis and suddenly be turned off unless you have something SERIOUSLY wrong.

You don't have to be sought after by women all over to have confidence. Confidence isn't knowing that you'll succeed every time, it's knowing how to deal with failure.
 

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How many flat girls do you know? Plenty i'm sure.

Some people are 'blessed' whereas most people aren't. What's more important than anything is that you're comfortable with what you do have and you can use it as best you can. As long as you do that the girl's gonna be singing your praises, not complaining about size.
 

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Uh, not quite the same thing comparing breast size to penis size. Breasts can all do their natural job equally well no matter how big or small they are. Penis size is directly correlated to a womans pleasure. Smaller men have to work much harder to give a woman as much pleasure that a larger man might give buy just doing the basics.

BTW men have varying tastes in breast size. Lots of men like big ones and lots of men like small ones. I doubt you will find a woman who says she likes small penis.
Looks < Use
 

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The only way to get over this is to make sure you enhance your oral and manual skills on women. And get over the psychological hurdle too. You must feel confortable withyuorself, and be sexually confident.

You can do it. It is possible.
Do the things that you need to do to get ahead in life, but do the things you need to do to enjoy YOUR life. This makes you a Man of high value. Make them feel you. Make them feel good just by being around you.
Bring Value to them.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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