"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Alright...

Girl 1 = target

Girl 2 = arsenal??

Basically what I've got here, is one hell of a situation...

On the one hand, I've got a slight infatuation with girl 1, who I barely know at all.

On the other hand, I've got the phone number of a friend of hers, that would be girl 2... who I don't know the slightest bit.

The only way I can contact girl 1... is by calling her friend.

so, you see... I'm F*CKED!!

I either set up a date with the friend, who I very well might be interested in... OR... I let the friend in on my intentions.

Either way has its risks. I get involved too much with the friend, and I risk losing my chances with the target girl. I tell the friend who I'm interested in, and it will just be a pain in the ass to talk about, and that is what makes me nervous for some reason.

Assuming it HAS to be girl 1... how would you play this?

I'll post more info if anyone's curious.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I am confused ........ is this a puzzle ?
 
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getting new "targets" = problem solved.

if you think that its too risky and you dont want to deal with the outcome fvck it.

or if ur really skilled....just game both @ the same time and have a menage with them. :D
 
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Well, this girl is like THE target... other targets, no comparison. That's why I even bother to actually seek her out. If it was some normal fling, I would next her... in fact, I already nexted her about five times, but it keeps coming back... I got game, I'm just not that good at recognizing the proper strategies for certain scenarios...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I don't have girl 1's number, I have girl 2's number... and it wasn't given to me, it was given to my mother... ! That's not a problem, though... I have more than enough game to bypass that. ;)
 
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"get betta friendz wit da girl u likez friend......... n dont try fukin her dont show any signz of likin her in a sexual way at all n juzt keep hangin out 2 were u guyz can joke around n truzt each otha wit anything sorta like a sista brotha friendship..... when u have dat accomplizhed den u tell her u like her friend n if u do a good job becomin friendz wit da girl u likez friend u can prolly even get her 2 help set u guyz up" -certified hustla

This sort of help almost makes me proud to post on rap boards.
 
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