"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i've finally realized my problem! plus some tips

toddC

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(this is a tip + soem needed hlep)
okay, so here i am at around 2 pm today thinking about how some of these kids are getting girls after girls after girls and finally it hits me why i'm not.

There are 3 main factors to gettign with chicks in highschool:

1) Become the center of attention.
2) kino kino kino!!
3) TALK TO THE GIRL!!

So I was thinking today, how am I getting limited a$$ where other kids that are equal in looks are getting laid every weekend. And it hit me.

I have #1 and #2 down completley. I realized (not to be conceeded) but whenever I'm with my friends adn girls I somehow am almost always what the conversation revolves around etc. #2 being kino...Whenever I'm talking to a girl my arm is around them, my hand is touching them, etc. and they all (For the most part) respond quite well to this.

Then I thought if these work why aren't i getting any po0n? That #3 is killing me. See if I'm talking to a girl, I won't completely ignore them but I won't give them liek hours and hours of communication....I like to mingle iwth everyone i'm with rather than just with the girl i'm trying to DJ. Am I right in assuming that doing this is wrong? Should I be spending most of my time talking tot his girl?

For example...last night I was at my friends party (we had no school today) and this HB 8 comes in...I've been Djing her for a while and from what I see, shes into me. So I go say hi tlak to her for a good 5 mins then I leave to go talk to other people and don't go tlak to her for another liek 2 hours. Ofcourse I end up not getting anything out of the deal. So this is my problem/tip thread. Please give me your input, thanks guys.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Great job on the kino and the center of attention part. It's just that you can't seal the deal. You actually can but you don't. If you want to go out with her, say"hey we should hang out this weekend".

Its seems that you know what your doing except that your not even trying to close. Right?
 

toddC

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well i'm talking about at a party...

but yea i just don't close but yea everyone learn from my mistakes because i'll be sure not to make anymore of the ones i just discussed.
 

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seems live uve got it down dude, great job now just initiate good quality conversation and make sure shes the 1 talkin. have a long conversation at a party then take a break from her for awhile come back and lay the smack down. get drunk get laid go home go to sleep thinkin damn i got drunk and laid tonight, im awesome :cheer:
 

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whyshy whats with the critizicm?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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