"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i've finally realized my problem! plus some tips

toddC

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(this is a tip + soem needed hlep)
okay, so here i am at around 2 pm today thinking about how some of these kids are getting girls after girls after girls and finally it hits me why i'm not.

There are 3 main factors to gettign with chicks in highschool:

1) Become the center of attention.
2) kino kino kino!!
3) TALK TO THE GIRL!!

So I was thinking today, how am I getting limited a$$ where other kids that are equal in looks are getting laid every weekend. And it hit me.

I have #1 and #2 down completley. I realized (not to be conceeded) but whenever I'm with my friends adn girls I somehow am almost always what the conversation revolves around etc. #2 being kino...Whenever I'm talking to a girl my arm is around them, my hand is touching them, etc. and they all (For the most part) respond quite well to this.

Then I thought if these work why aren't i getting any po0n? That #3 is killing me. See if I'm talking to a girl, I won't completely ignore them but I won't give them liek hours and hours of communication....I like to mingle iwth everyone i'm with rather than just with the girl i'm trying to DJ. Am I right in assuming that doing this is wrong? Should I be spending most of my time talking tot his girl?

For example...last night I was at my friends party (we had no school today) and this HB 8 comes in...I've been Djing her for a while and from what I see, shes into me. So I go say hi tlak to her for a good 5 mins then I leave to go talk to other people and don't go tlak to her for another liek 2 hours. Ofcourse I end up not getting anything out of the deal. So this is my problem/tip thread. Please give me your input, thanks guys.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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*learn to spell*

Great job on the kino and the center of attention part. It's just that you can't seal the deal. You actually can but you don't. If you want to go out with her, say"hey we should hang out this weekend".

Its seems that you know what your doing except that your not even trying to close. Right?
 

toddC

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well i'm talking about at a party...

but yea i just don't close but yea everyone learn from my mistakes because i'll be sure not to make anymore of the ones i just discussed.
 

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seems live uve got it down dude, great job now just initiate good quality conversation and make sure shes the 1 talkin. have a long conversation at a party then take a break from her for awhile come back and lay the smack down. get drunk get laid go home go to sleep thinkin damn i got drunk and laid tonight, im awesome :cheer:
 

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whyshy whats with the critizicm?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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