I've fallen into the friendship zone...Can u guys help me to get out???

[AkiraZero]

Re: Akira and Starman have right kind of ideas.

Originally posted by Bonhomme
But it's harder when you see someone around all the time.

Much less difficult to do a turnaround if you can have a BREAK froim contact with them for a while.

Then when you reappear, don't pick up where you left off, but start again fresh. New attitude, new man, new life.

I've recently had a few recent turnarounds in progress that haven't gone beyond flirting yet, but their attitude when I run into them is noticeably different.

That's true. its harder when u see her everyday. But its still possible. What important is that u must be careless and act careless about your new attitude towards her.

If u see her everyday, and u suddenly change your attititude like mentioned before, she will probably think or say, be yourself, or why u suddenly changed?

That's only a test of her and other people to see if u serious and not a wussy.

For example when a nerd in your class, suddenly changed his attitude. Wearing new cool clothes, walking smooth etc. And people are bullying him with : why the new attitude? why the new clothes do you think your cool now or something?

And he acts like he doesn't care what they think about his new attitude, look, clothes etc. They will have more respect for him. Instead of him being wussy and changing back to the nerd look/attitude. Then they won't have respect for him.

 

[AkiraZero]

Originally posted by _Machiavelli_
More physical in the way that she probably found my friend a more attractive male than me, i think that really counts to a girl despite of confidence being important also. and u are also right, i might not give the impression of trying to win her trough the friends path but maybe indirectly and out of my control i'm doing it.

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Any progess yet?

 

[_Machiavelli_]

Just cutted all contact with her. She saw me today ( i was reading the newspaper ) and asked if i was ok, if was something wrong with me. I replied " Yeah. I'm feeling particularly happy today. She asked me why and i said " it's personal business."Then she said it was ok and left me alone. It felt good, really.

 

[AkiraZero]

Originally posted by _Machiavelli_
Just cutted all contact with her. She saw me today ( i was reading the newspaper ) and asked if i was ok, if was something wrong with me. I replied " Yeah. I'm feeling particularly happy today. She asked me why and i said " it's personal business."Then she said it was ok and left me alone. It felt good, really.

Good job! It gives you this great feeling of that ur not a weak wussy anymore but urself.

 

[Exiled]

Originally posted by Mizer
Getting out of the LJBF zone is, of course, nearly impossible. Your best bet it to avoid the things highlighted in Starman's post from now on. Move on. She is 99.9%
lost to you. Sorry.


The whole concept of the LJBF zone is intriguing. The fact that it's so easy to get into and nearly impossiblel to get out still amazes me. You can get buffed, sport cooler clothes, etc., but its seems to help little. Maybe one day there will be a cure.

Mizer

Unless u have killed someone she loved or did something horrible to her, its possible.