"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've dug myself a hole

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There are these girls that I know and they always hang out with me and go to lunch with me and call me and all that happy bullsh*t. The problem is that they all have boyfriends that know me and stuff. Im wondering if having these girls around is bad when it comes to dating and sex because I show these girls my quality and don juan traits all the time and thats hy they stick around but I can't f*ck or make out with them because they're with my friends. Its some bullsh*t. Should I stop hanging out with them becuase its starting to piss me off. Its like looking at a piece of inviting p*ssy on the other side of a glass window.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lol, start shopping somewhere else where there isn't windows. you already know the answer to it but i guess it just had to be told from someone else.

and another thing. remember this, you have absolute control of your life, they don't make you happy the way you want it. then just step out and start focusing on what you want and how you're going to get it.

hope this helps, and good luck bro.
 

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oh no, 4 or 5 girls you can't screw. But they know how great you are!!! It almost sounds like you're not getting any anywhere.
 
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i know!!!! Althought they constantly feel me up and ****........arrgghh!!!!!!!!
 
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