"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've dug myself a hole

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There are these girls that I know and they always hang out with me and go to lunch with me and call me and all that happy bullsh*t. The problem is that they all have boyfriends that know me and stuff. Im wondering if having these girls around is bad when it comes to dating and sex because I show these girls my quality and don juan traits all the time and thats hy they stick around but I can't f*ck or make out with them because they're with my friends. Its some bullsh*t. Should I stop hanging out with them becuase its starting to piss me off. Its like looking at a piece of inviting p*ssy on the other side of a glass window.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lol, start shopping somewhere else where there isn't windows. you already know the answer to it but i guess it just had to be told from someone else.

and another thing. remember this, you have absolute control of your life, they don't make you happy the way you want it. then just step out and start focusing on what you want and how you're going to get it.

hope this helps, and good luck bro.
 

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oh no, 4 or 5 girls you can't screw. But they know how great you are!!! It almost sounds like you're not getting any anywhere.
 
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i know!!!! Althought they constantly feel me up and ****........arrgghh!!!!!!!!
 
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