afaik marriage has 50% failure rate in USA, so thats every second woman, since 70% of divorces are filled by women and likely 20% filled by men under thread of accusing him of something
the girl from babe net probably wouldnt even exist if not tinder. she would have it harder to cheat
Isn't that a 50% failure rate in totality? Which means it's not every second woman that cheats, it's every second woman whose marriage fails for whatever possible reason. Big difference.
Tons of reasons for divorce, most of which are complex. Unless someone has serious personality disorders, they're not going to marry and then a month later bang the hubby's best friend.
I think cheating in marriage is usually due to a slow drifting apart over years - usually one partner stops taking care of themselves/gets lazy or selfish with sex/takes their partner for granted and then it progresses to their partner cheating from there. Marriage is still a commitment most people respect, and they're less liable to instant-cheat like they are in a normal LTR.
There's a quote from a comedian that I like: "Think of how dumb and incompetent the average person is. And then remember that 50% of people are below that." That is to say, a lot of people can't be arsed to put effort into their marriages and LTRs and so it's hardly surprising they go down the toilet. Just like how small businesses in some Western countries have an 85% failure rate - because people CBA to work hard or think about what they're doing.
It ultimately just comes down to maintaining your physique, maintaining your frame and treating your partner with the same affection you treated them with 10 years ago. That takes effort.
sure you might not want to bang the same puss for 20 years, but you get bored later than women do.
Surely this just depends how well you're nailing that puss?! I know some guys who have had girls say "I love you" after smashing them like they've never been smashed before. If a woman's shaking every time she's in bed with you, she's not going to be interested in some younger unloving Chad who doesn't know what he's doing by comparison.
Agreed with Tinder though. I use Tinder but I hate it. It's turned dating into a Friday night photoshop contest, with the romanticism and skill level of ordering a stapler from Amazon. It's drab and absolutely shallow as f***.