"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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it's payin off! :D Everyone has been sayin that I look great and the ladies have been eyein me a alot more then usual. A few days ago, one of my dentist gave me some compliments and then it got to the point where I noticed that she was more touchy feely then usual. Kinda odd but it felt great. My lady friends have been doin the same thing like what my dentist did. It feels awesome to have the thought of being more sexually attractive unlike before of being just normal.

Besides that, I have a question. I've noticed that when they touch me, they would go straight for my chest. Usually I would just flex and let them molest me. ;) Anyways, do you guys have any suggestions to amplyifying the scenerio? Please give me any kind of suggestions such as: c/f comments, teasers, kinos, etc. I wanna take it up a notch. Thanks!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Your a grade A bender
never before have I heard such garbage!
 

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It's true that girls love a hot body. Once I was in a house party and I was trading punches to the stomach with this guy. Like he would go first, then I'd go. Well he was hitting me as hard as he could but I was just laughing at him. Then he hit me as hard as he could and broke his wrist (No joke). One girl saw this and asked me to see my stomach... I showed her my 6-pac and she ran to her friends and soon enough they had me cornered and were asking to see it. I told them I'd trade and one of them flashed her very big t*ts. But the point is, girls can be extremely shallow like that.

That whole incident made me add a new line to my arsenal which is GOLD. Whenever I'm chatting up a bird in a club, I'll put my hand on her waist and tell her, "I love the compromise between your top and soft skin... feel mine". She feels the 6-pac and her attraction goes THROUGH THE ROOF.

Try it.
 

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Originally posted by spiker
Your a grade A bender
never before have I heard such garbage!
If you think being ripped doesn't make a difference, you're a fool.

Sure it's not the end-all, but if she finds you physically attractive, you have a lot better chance with her. Period.
 

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Originally posted by SuperAlbert
it's payin off! :D Everyone has been sayin that I look great and the ladies have been eyein me a alot more then usual. A few days ago, one of my dentist gave me some compliments and then it got to the point where I noticed that she was more touchy feely then usual. Kinda odd but it felt great. My lady friends have been doin the same thing like what my dentist did. It feels awesome to have the thought of being more sexually attractive unlike before of being just normal.

Besides that, I have a question. I've noticed that when they touch me, they would go straight for my chest. Usually I would just flex and let them molest me. ;) Anyways, do you guys have any suggestions to amplyifying the scenerio? Please give me any kind of suggestions such as: c/f comments, teasers, kinos, etc. I wanna take it up a notch. Thanks!
That is awesome man...keep doing what you are doing.

IMO, most of the big, ripped dudes are subtle but aggressive. There really is no need for massive C&F when you're body is doing most of the attracting. Let the convo flow between you too, and when the moment is right, take her hand and have her follow you to somewhere private...

How can they say no to that when a minute earlier they were "molesting" you?

Carpe Diem
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Being solid and ripped provides attraction at the most primitive, and the most real, level. It sends an aurora of testosterone that cannot be ignored by women.
 

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I work out a lot two i usually say hands of the merchandise which i got from wepons of mass seduction (Thanks for that fingers), or i let them love me and walk away and show no attention and later on i tease them and flirt then walk away
 

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FVK! lol this makes me wanna go to my room and start lifting my weights again, but i dont know whats wrong with me but i only last for like a week after that i get lazy and quit
 

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THEY MIGHT COMPLIMENT YOU, BUT IT DOSNT MEAN THEY WANA **** YOU.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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