"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I've been there, done it, humped around...

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Well guys (and you fine females out there ;) ), think for a minute...Imagine playing golf and hitting the ball down the green. Things seem to be in great shape. Until you notice that your shot rolls into the lake. Do you take a drop, play it safe, and live with "what if?" Or, do you say "fuck this," and take the shot again and again until you make it over the water?

If you play it safe, what else in life are you going to take the "drop?" What if it comes up again? Drop? What if you HAD to take the shot or lose? Ah, feeling more bold now, huh?

If you take the shot, are you going to keep up that streak of "on the edge" in life? If an important situation comes up where you either play it safe or go for it all, are you going to be all in?

The point people, is that there are situations in life that will test to see which you are: opptimist or pessimist.

Opptimist will take the drop...Pessimist will take the shot.

Either way, you'll go through life asking "what if?" Would you rather you tried and failed, then never tried and never learned? Remember...The world is watching.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Interresting. Take the shot.
 

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an optimist is a badly inforgmed pessimist
 

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there's no way i'd pull a tin cup on the golf course

saying that, it's a good idea for life
 
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