"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I've been meeting some new people recently

bigdave17

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all of them have liked me a lot immediately but once they've found out how successful I am, they've really wanted to be my friend very badly

Do you guys think LMS matters a lot only if you also have a good personality? As in these people liked me as a person, but seeing how successful/driven I am increased my value in their eyes?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yes, all those you mentioned above has pulling power.

Nobody likes a loser.

What you have always needed from all your post is staying power, to consistently have it.

However LMS is where you start off and slowly build your "game".
 

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I’ve been meeting some new girls recently.

All of them have liked me a lot immediately but once they've found out I was very average, they've really wanted to have sex with me very badly

Do you guys think LMS DOES NOT matter if you also have a good personality? As in girls liked me as a person, but seeing how average I was increased my value in their eyes?
 
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