"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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bigdave17

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all of them have liked me a lot immediately but once they've found out how successful I am, they've really wanted to be my friend very badly

Do you guys think LMS matters a lot only if you also have a good personality? As in these people liked me as a person, but seeing how successful/driven I am increased my value in their eyes?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yes, all those you mentioned above has pulling power.

Nobody likes a loser.

What you have always needed from all your post is staying power, to consistently have it.

However LMS is where you start off and slowly build your "game".
 

Trump

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I’ve been meeting some new girls recently.

All of them have liked me a lot immediately but once they've found out I was very average, they've really wanted to have sex with me very badly

Do you guys think LMS DOES NOT matter if you also have a good personality? As in girls liked me as a person, but seeing how average I was increased my value in their eyes?
 
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