"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've been invited to a secret group

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The guys are big shots, huge in my town... They know the streets, and they said I am ready.

I have another three days to think about this, and I really don't know what to say.

I've had pacts with my friends before. I've been part of groups that did everything together. I've never had to actually join a group though, I'm usually there when it is formed.

What should I be careful of?

I don't want to join the group, than find out later that they do anything illegal.

If they are not doing anything illegal though, than what really is the use of joining?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You have started 36 THREADS in TWO WEEKS. STFU for five minutes.
 
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Would it make a difference if I made a whole new account for every thread I made?

Shut up or just give your opinion and leave it at that.
 
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Stackthestyles said:
Would it make a difference if I made a whole new account for every thread I made?
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No because they all stink of troll.
 
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Wow, that is really observant of you Nighthawk.

I'm more of a person who thinks forward, looking for any problems which may arise. Most of the time it is unfounded fear, and I learn something from the process, I learn not to be afriad when the time actually arises.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah, and the above is true.

Should I just join and be done with it. Become a drug dealer and a gang banger?

Should I just follow suit, accept the offer, and never look back?

Being part of a gang, I've never pursued it, but my mindset has advanced so much over the past year, and I can see further than I ever knew. My eyes are open to a new life... I can't see into the gang mindset though.

I know if I join than a lot of my old habits will come to the surface, I will allow my emotions and intuition to do a lot more of my thinking than I allow it to do now.

What is there to worry about? That's my question. So ignore the utterly retarded truth, and join me in the rhetoric.
 
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you sir have a serious talent for saying little with many words
 
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mountain said:
you sir have a serious talent for saying little with many words
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OOH, good compliment.

Why are you trolling my thread?
 
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Wow, maybe it is, why are you so interested in fags?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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read the fine print.

they allways get you in the fine print.


"ya we'll give you gym membership, and pool, sonna, persoanl training....bla bla bhla.....oh by the way, if you ever cancel, you have to die (or at least pay couple hundred bucks..)"
 
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