"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

I've been invited to a secret group

S

Stackthestyles

Banned
Joined
May 29, 2006
Messages
304
Reaction score
1
The guys are big shots, huge in my town... They know the streets, and they said I am ready.

I have another three days to think about this, and I really don't know what to say.

I've had pacts with my friends before. I've been part of groups that did everything together. I've never had to actually join a group though, I'm usually there when it is formed.

What should I be careful of?

I don't want to join the group, than find out later that they do anything illegal.

If they are not doing anything illegal though, than what really is the use of joining?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

N

Nighthawk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2005
Messages
2,078
Reaction score
29
You have started 36 THREADS in TWO WEEKS. STFU for five minutes.
 
S

Stackthestyles

Banned
Joined
May 29, 2006
Messages
304
Reaction score
1
Would it make a difference if I made a whole new account for every thread I made?

Shut up or just give your opinion and leave it at that.
 
N

Nighthawk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2005
Messages
2,078
Reaction score
29
Stackthestyles said:
Would it make a difference if I made a whole new account for every thread I made?
Click to expand...
No because they all stink of troll.
 
S

Stackthestyles

Banned
Joined
May 29, 2006
Messages
304
Reaction score
1
Wow, that is really observant of you Nighthawk.

I'm more of a person who thinks forward, looking for any problems which may arise. Most of the time it is unfounded fear, and I learn something from the process, I learn not to be afriad when the time actually arises.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

S

Stackthestyles

Banned
Joined
May 29, 2006
Messages
304
Reaction score
1
Yeah, and the above is true.

Should I just join and be done with it. Become a drug dealer and a gang banger?

Should I just follow suit, accept the offer, and never look back?

Being part of a gang, I've never pursued it, but my mindset has advanced so much over the past year, and I can see further than I ever knew. My eyes are open to a new life... I can't see into the gang mindset though.

I know if I join than a lot of my old habits will come to the surface, I will allow my emotions and intuition to do a lot more of my thinking than I allow it to do now.

What is there to worry about? That's my question. So ignore the utterly retarded truth, and join me in the rhetoric.
 
M

mountain

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 23, 2006
Messages
146
Reaction score
1
you sir have a serious talent for saying little with many words
 
S

Stackthestyles

Banned
Joined
May 29, 2006
Messages
304
Reaction score
1
mountain said:
you sir have a serious talent for saying little with many words
Click to expand...
OOH, good compliment.

Why are you trolling my thread?
 
S

Stackthestyles

Banned
Joined
May 29, 2006
Messages
304
Reaction score
1
Wow, maybe it is, why are you so interested in fags?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

S

spider_007

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 23, 2005
Messages
3,072
Reaction score
16
Location
ontario
read the fine print.

they allways get you in the fine print.


"ya we'll give you gym membership, and pool, sonna, persoanl training....bla bla bhla.....oh by the way, if you ever cancel, you have to die (or at least pay couple hundred bucks..)"
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top