I've been home for last couple days recovering from hair transplant surgery

[zekko]

I am not sure what dirt of delusion you are living but, women don't look like that for long.

That's okay, bigdave doesn't allow his women to age.

 

[bigdave17]

That's okay, bigdave doesn't allow his women to age.

I have a hot 35 year old Spanish co worker who looks like that and she has 2 kids

 

[MatureDJ]

A lot of bald men say, "it's macho to be bald", etc., but I have a pretty thick shock of hair - except at the 3" diameter bald spot , which fortunately is hard to see straight on - and I've noticed women who like the thick carpet there.

 

[bigdave17]

A lot of bald men say, "it's macho to be bald", etc., but I have a pretty thick shock of hair - except at the 3" diameter bald spot , which fortunately is hard to see straight on - and I've noticed women who like the thick carpet there.

bald head and beard looks good on some guys. You really need to have a certain head shape, have a good muscular/lean physique and preferably be black

What I hate personally is that it makes me look a lot older. I already look older to begin with... I don't want to look 40

 

[bigdave17]

Your middle eastern mom REALLY fvcked you up didn't she. It's ok, I know that feel lol

what you mean? My parents are absolutely wonderful

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

When BigNeil got banned... Richard The Frog and BigDave appeared.

Bigdave was here after. Richard was here way before he got banned.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Hence all the mental disorders lol

Why are you hating on him so much?

 

[bigdave17]

Hence all the mental disorders lol

my dating problems 100% started in high school


I was a fat kid and didn't have any contact with women. I was mocked for my lack of dating success and I internalized it so hard. I believe that I would never be good enough to have a girlfriend and just made women and dating the most impossible thing on the face of the earth


if I had a normal childhood in regards to women and dating, I would likely have a beautiful wife/girlfriend by now

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

my dating problems 100% started in high school


I was a fat kid and didn't have any contact with women. I was mocked for my lack of dating success and I internalized it so hard. I believe that I would never be good enough to have a girlfriend and just made women and dating the most impossible thing on the face of the earth


if I had a normal childhood in regards to women and dating, I would likely have a beautiful wife/girlfriend by now

Okay bro, I completely get where you’re coming from, and I know exactly how you feel. I felt that way when I was 12. I actually had to figure it out on my own though (that the reason why I was socially awkward was because of my family life and childhood). That same intelligence that lead me to realize that I was weird because of my family also said to me ‘well now that you know about it, you shouldn’t let it affect you anymore’. And yeah I was still pissed that my parents ****ed up when raising me and my siblings, but I was able to escape it and change myself after because I knew that if I had continued to remain that way, that it would be my fault after that.

I’m telling you the same thing. Now that you know it’s because of how you were in high school, or because of your childhood or whatever, you cannot let it affect you anymore. You cannot continue to blame that as the reason for your failure with women. From this point on, it’s on you. You gotta fix yourself. Internalize everything and improve. Fix yourself. You can do it. It’ll take time, but you can’t keep blaming something that happened so long ago. Now that you know about it, it shouldn’t have any control over you anymore.

 

[IKO69]

I love women as long as they look like this

but I love their personality and character too, as long as they like all the same stuff I like


I don't care about a Lambo, huge waste of money. I have a very nice, practical, Lexus GS with a billion features

A babe for sure. I hate that whole number system you guys on here do but when I think of a "hot girl" I would think of someone like that. Those types of chix are usually picky so you gotta cover all your bases - aka cheeto eating internet porn surfers are out of luck. You should be striving towards making yourself as attractive as you can be.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Where have you been? Don't just walk in on thread #101 lol

I read the thread title, and based on that, I will determine whether or not the thread is deserving of my presence. So for his millionth thread, I saw how he wrote and am able to discern his state of mind. He isn’t trolling. He’s just too caught up with thinking about things. He’s just talking to himself mostly, it’s apart of the process one goes through when reconfiguring their mindset (aka reprogramming their mind). It’s what Richard was doing as well. It takes a lot of time, especially since they’re older. Let them babble to themselves. You don’t have to read every thread. The stuff they say might seem unimportant to you, and even to them too sometimes, but in reality it’s just a checkpoint to know that they’re moving along. A baby for instance waving its arms and bobbing up and down while sitting might not mean anything to you. But it’s a benchmark for the baby, that tells you that its nervous system is working and that the baby is figuring out its own kinesthetics. It’s the same thing with these guys.

 

[bigdave17]

A babe for sure. I hate that whole number system you guys on here do but when I think of a "hot girl" I would think of someone like that. Those types of chix are usually picky so you gotta cover all your bases - aka cheeto eating internet porn surfers are out of luck. You should be striving towards making yourself as attractive as you can be.

I'm an obsessive hardcore self perfectionist

to the whole point where I got a 13K surgery done because I had imperfect hair...in 6 months, I will have male model wavy jet black hair

 

[Fzatf]

Bigdave is a little full of himself and doesn't put enough effort to get the girls he wants but I don't understand the hate. He's respectful of other members even if he doesn't take most of the advice he's given.

Dave, are you using medication like topical propecia in addition to the transplants?

 

[bigdave17]

Bigdave is a little full of himself and doesn't put enough effort to get the girls he wants but I don't understand the hate. He's respectful of other members even if he doesn't take most of the advice he's given.

Dave, are you using medication like topical propecia in addition to the transplants?

yes

propecia
rogaine
and nizoral

 

[Tilex]

I hate that whole number system you guys on here do but when I think of a "hot girl" I would think of someone like that. Those types of chix are usually picky so you gotta cover all your bases - aka cheeto eating internet porn surfers are out of luck. You should be striving towards making yourself as attractive as you can be.

I'm exactly the same way. I never use the number system in person or online.
My ratings chart is basically:
- Sexy as hell
- Attractive/Hot
- Above Average
- Average
- Below Average
- Ugly
- Fugly

 

[switch7]

I've worked obsessively hard at improving every aspect of myself. I'm going to try to put all that behind me and just look at everyday as a fresh start to finally meet the love of my life. I'm going to try to put myself in uncomfortable situations

You are still blue pilled imo. Having the mindset that you want to fall in love will most likely result in you being completely beta around any prospective female. If you do manage to bag a 9 or a 10 she is going to play you for all you have and use you for cash. However its good that you want to push out your comfort zone. Just don't approach dates/women with an expectation of falling in love, delete the words 'love of my life' and anything similar to that from your vocabulary. Have you read 'the rational man'? If not i suggest this book.

 

[switch7]

You're absolutely wrong, he needs CBT bare minimum, not message board word salad. You can't just put your head in the sand and ignore his other 10000x threads on the same issue and the disorder demonstrated within.

Virtually all of us struggled with negative thought processes and virtually none of us made 1000 threads on the same word salad issue.

yea i agree, cbt would be a great idea.

 

[zekko]

bald head and beard looks good on some guys. You really need to have a certain head shape, have a good muscular/lean physique and preferably be black

What I hate personally is that it makes me look a lot older. I already look older to begin with... I don't want to look 40

Speaking as someone who's been 40, men don't look much different at 40 than they do in their 30s (as long as you stay in shape). Women won't shy away from guys who look 40.

Regarding shaving your head, why don't people ever use Howie Mandell as an example?

I'm exactly the same way. I never use the number system in person or online.
My ratings chart is basically:
- Sexy as hell (9)
- Attractive/Hot (8)
- Above Average (7)
- Average (6)
- Below Average (5)
- Ugly (4)
- Fugly (3)

That rating chart basically equates to a number system though. I filled in the numbers in bold. Bear in mind that I don't believe in 10s. And really, once you get down to 4 and below, it doesn't really matter.

 

[bigdave17]

Speaking as someone who's been 40, men don't look much different at 40 than they do in their 30s (as long as you stay in shape). Women won't shy away from guys who look 40.

Regarding shaving your head, why don't people ever use Howie Mandell as an example?


That rating chart basically equates to a number system though. I filled in the numbers in bold. Bear in mind that I don't believe in 10s. And really, once you get down to 4 and below, it doesn't really matter.

me with a full head of hair/no facial hair = I look my age (29)

The awesome thing with being middle eastern is we have dark, very thick, oily complexion. I will look like this for next 20 years. My 55 year old uncle could pass for 35. We just don't get wrinkles

My mom is 55 and has no wrinkles. Most white women at 55 look like grandmas

 

[zekko]

The awesome thing with being middle eastern is we have dark, very thick, oily complexion. I will look like this for next 20 years. My 55 year old uncle could pass for 35. We just don't get wrinkles

My mom is 55 and has no wrinkles. Most white women at 55 look like grandmas

I agree that white women (on average) do not age as well as the darker skinned races.
Some white women get fat when they get old, and don't get wrinkles, but they're fat. So they look fat and old.
Or they stay thin, but then they seem to be more inclined to get wrinkles (they've lost some of the fat content in their skin). Sometimes their skin starts to look like thin crepe paper.

I don't have any wrinkles, but I've tried to stay out of the sun for the last 30 years. When I was younger I was in the sun so much I was probably darker than you are.