"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I had decent hair but I had a badly thinning patch in the crown that was driving me crazy. I had 4000 grafts done (which is around 12,000 hairs added). It's going to give me a slightly lower hairline (which improves facial aesthetics quite a bit) and the thinning patch will be gone (thank god). I already have very thick, wavy jet black hair. It takes about 6 months for the transplanted hairs to really come in properly and it will look fantastic

Anyways, I've had a lot of time to think about my life, my friends, my family, everything. I've been very blessed to have everything that I have. I'm going to try to be extremely grateful everyday from now on and not let small stuff bother me. I will try to be a great son to my parents, a great brother to my sisters and a great friend to all my friends (which I already try but I will try that much harder),

As far as it relates to my dating struggles, all of it stems from my childhood days of being fat in high school and it destroying my confidence and me convincing myself that I would never be good enough to have a girlfriend. I've worked obsessively hard at improving every aspect of myself. I'm going to try to put all that behind me and just look at everyday as a fresh start to finally meet the love of my life. I'm going to try to put myself in uncomfortable situations

As weird as it sounds, as ****y as I may seem here (which I'm not ****y at all in real life), that's strictly on a surface conscious level. Subconsciously, I still struggle to believe that a hot woman would want to be with me. I'm gonna try to put that behind me and make myself believe 100% with every ounce of my being that I deserve an awesome girlfriend

I'm out of commission for about 10 days (off gym/work/everything) so I'm going to do a lot of introspection
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This post reminds me of @RichardTheFrog. Is he your alter ego? Or, perhaps, vice-versa?
There are a lot of key differences in the two. Richard is a lot more defensive, for instance. And like Dave says, he actually likes women (unless their skin is going to look wrinkly in 10 years). But you're right, I've always associated the two with each other for some reason. Maybe because they are both a couple of characters.

Dave says he's good looking, Richard doesn't really claim that.
Dave says he's in the top 95% of guys, Richard just says "I'm better than you".
I don't think Dave has ever said whether or not he drives a Lamborghini though.
 

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There are a lot of key differences in the two. Richard is a lot more defensive, for instance. And like Dave says, he actually likes women (unless their skin is going to look wrinkly in 10 years). But you're right, I've always associated the two with each other for some reason. Maybe because they are both a couple of characters.

Dave says he's good looking, Richard doesn't really claim that.
Dave says he's in the top 95% of guys, Richard just says "I'm better than you".
I don't think Dave has ever said whether or not he drives a Lamborghini though.

I love women as long as they look like this




but I love their personality and character too, as long as they like all the same stuff I like ;)


I don't care about a Lambo, huge waste of money. I have a very nice, practical, Lexus GS with a billion features
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There are a lot of key differences in the two. Richard is a lot more defensive, for instance. And like Dave says, he actually likes women (unless their skin is going to look wrinkly in 10 years). But you're right, I've always associated the two with each other for some reason. Maybe because they are both a couple of characters.

Dave says he's good looking, Richard doesn't really claim that.
Dave says he's in the top 95% of guys, Richard just says "I'm better than you".
I don't think Dave has ever said whether or not he drives a Lamborghini though.
Again, alter-ego.
 

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Again, alter-ego.
I've always found interesting that there was always a renewal of memberships at SoSuave with the same writing style but with alter-personality (same behaviour but opposite side).

When BigNeil got banned... Richard The Frog and BigDave appeared.

When Richard The Frog got banned. Someone with "plastic surgery" appeared.

It might be market population ratio but still.

Anyway, SoSuave has been lacking in productive threads these days.. It might be a good sign that man are more succesful now.

To OP, the girls you share the pictures of.. You will find them at: Gym, Crossfit, Bodybuilding, and bars next to the beach full of beachboys guy/muscle man
 

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I love women as long as they look like this
Do these women know how narcissistic they look, taking pictures of themselves in a mirror like that, so they can admire how hot they look? I guess it isn't going to last forever though, so may as well get it documented while you can. I actually wish I had more pictures of myself when I was younger. Our family was never big on cameras, and of course it was before the days of social media and smartphones.

As for cars, I prefer practicality and luxury over flash also. I have no real use for being able to go 200 mph. It's not like there's an autobahn anywhere near me.

Again, alter-ego.
Anything's possible, I guess. Then you've got the "big" in "bigdave", reminds me of the "Big" in "Bigneil". Maybe they're all the same person. Richard and Neil shared a love of strippers. They all claim to have money. Neil only liked white women though, while Dave only likes ethnic women.
Another similarity is that they've all posted pictures of themselves. Hmm. Is Tenacity in on this somewhere?
 
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the recovery from this surgery hasn't been too bad but today I got nasty swelling under my eye. I hope it goes away soon


I just wish I could skip ahead to 6 months from now and have my perfect thick glorious head of hair
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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he's a social reject with horrendous social skills who hates women


I love people and I love women
Let's not judge people. Everyone has their own struggles and demons. Until you walk a mile in anyone's shoes, no one else has a right to judge. Yea, he has some problems, but we all do. No one is perfect.

I've always found interesting that there was always a renewal of memberships at SoSuave with the same writing style but with alter-personality (same behaviour but opposite side).

When BigNeil got banned... Richard The Frog and BigDave appeared.

When Richard The Frog got banned. Someone with "plastic surgery" appeared.

It might be market population ratio but still.

Anyway, SoSuave has been lacking in productive threads these days.. It might be a good sign that man are more succesful now.

To OP, the girls you share the pictures of.. You will find them at: Gym, Crossfit, Bodybuilding, and bars next to the beach full of beachboys guy/muscle man
I have no idea of who BigNeil is.

the recovery from this surgery hasn't been too bad but today I got nasty swelling under my eye. I hope it goes away soon


I just wish I could skip ahead to 6 months from now and have my perfect thick glorious head of hair
Like your bionic d!ck? :confused:
 

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Let's not judge people. Everyone has their own struggles and demons. Until you walk a mile in anyone's shoes, no one else has a right to judge. Yea, he has some problems, but we all do. No one is perfect.



I have no idea of who BigNeil is.



Like your bionic d!ck? :confused:

i hate plastic surgery but it was a requirement for me unfortunately. I've lost a lot of my hair. Most people can't tell because my hair texture is so thick and wavy but when I shower you can tell

It's not like I'm trying to have something unnatural, I just want to have the hair I had 10 years ago
 

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i hate plastic surgery but it was a requirement for me unfortunately. I've lost a lot of my hair. Most people can't tell because my hair texture is so thick and wavy but when I shower you can tell

It's not like I'm trying to have something unnatural, I just want to have the hair I had 10 years ago
Don't we all bro. It's called aging. No judging. Do what ever works for you. A bit extreme, but you do you. If you are not confident within yourself, how is any woman going to? I still think it's best you get to work on your brain and sideline this other stuff. WORK ON YOU ON THE INSIDE!
 

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Don't we all bro. It's called aging. No judging. Do what ever works for you. A bit extreme, but you do you. If you are not confident within yourself, how is any woman going to? I still think it's best you get to work on your brain and sideline this other stuff. WORK ON YOU ON THE INSIDE!

white guys can do that shaved head with beard **** and look fine. I'm Middle Eastern. Me with beard and shaved head = 40 year old arab terrorist. Me with clean face and nice hair = look like a handsome 29 year old European male
 

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I had decent hair but I had a badly thinning patch in the crown that was driving me crazy. I had 4000 grafts done (which is around 12,000 hairs added). It's going to give me a slightly lower hairline (which improves facial aesthetics quite a bit) and the thinning patch will be gone (thank god). I already have very thick, wavy jet black hair. It takes about 6 months for the transplanted hairs to really come in properly and it will look fantastic

Anyways, I've had a lot of time to think about my life, my friends, my family, everything. I've been very blessed to have everything that I have. I'm going to try to be extremely grateful everyday from now on and not let small stuff bother me. I will try to be a great son to my parents, a great brother to my sisters and a great friend to all my friends (which I already try but I will try that much harder),

As far as it relates to my dating struggles, all of it stems from my childhood days of being fat in high school and it destroying my confidence and me convincing myself that I would never be good enough to have a girlfriend. I've worked obsessively hard at improving every aspect of myself. I'm going to try to put all that behind me and just look at everyday as a fresh start to finally meet the love of my life. I'm going to try to put myself in uncomfortable situations

As weird as it sounds, as ****y as I may seem here (which I'm not ****y at all in real life), that's strictly on a surface conscious level. Subconsciously, I still struggle to believe that a hot woman would want to be with me. I'm gonna try to put that behind me and make myself believe 100% with every ounce of my being that I deserve an awesome girlfriend

I'm out of commission for about 10 days (off gym/work/everything) so I'm going to do a lot of introspection
Lmfao hair transplant. You're a funny guy.

I would go Steve Austin/Neil Strauss mode.

Good head of hair. Slight Bradley cooper. Always said, if it goes,it goes. No comb over. No weird stuff. Gone.

Ts,probably could have just did a undercut or buzzee it. Hopefully, you're happy.

I recommended meditation in another thread. You need to let go. Your past holds you back. Being a fat guy and a fat girl aren't the same since your value isn't barely based on aesthetics.

Lift. Go Chris Pratt, skylord ectomorph jacked aesthetic on the world.

Start a challenge. Create a YouTube and IG page. Track your progress. Ho solipsism on the world. Do it for you.

I know of a fitness YouTuber that liked a guys post. He now has a sponsor and blew up. Its pretty cool.

Your audience can be about your demographic.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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white guys can do that shaved head with beard **** and look fine. I'm Middle Eastern. Me with beard and shaved head = 40 year old arab terrorist. Me with clean face and nice hair = look like a handsome 29 year old European male
You got it wrong.

If you're Beckham, you can do many things. Most don't have the jaw line nor hear shape for bald but, buzz can suit guys.

Regardless, obsession on looks caters to the female biological strategy. Don't bother.

Mystery put it best. Balding isn't a choice. Bald is.
 

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You got it wrong.

If you're Beckham, you can do many things. Most don't have the jaw line nor hear shape for bald but, buzz can suit guys.

Regardless, obsession on looks caters to the female biological strategy. Don't bother.

Mystery put it best. Balding isn't a choice. Bald is.
read this very carefully

I'm middle eastern

me will full head of hair and no facial hair = handsome European 29 year old
me with shaved head and beard = look like a 40 year old Arab


I want you to guess which will be more successful with the women in the US
 

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read this very carefully

I'm middle eastern

me will full head of hair and no facial hair = handsome European 29 year old
me with shaved head and beard = look like a 40 year old Arab


I want you to guess which will be more successful with the women in the US
Western women tho?

Jake's on you kuz!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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