"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've been DJing it but i dont know what to do now.

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Ok, so there was this girl i was chasing, its been on and off, it started off, i was really interested and she seemed kinda iffy about it all, so i hooked up with her and it made everything more comfortable, but i still felt i was chasing her, so last week i told her i really liked her, but she said she didnt like me like that but im awesome, so 2 days later she signs online and im's me (she never did that i always initiated the conversation) so shes like lets hang out tonight!, so i was like umm maybe, ill think about it she was calling like a million times, wondering if we were chillen , and i made her meet me instead of me coming to her house, when i got there she was all dolled up, and i didnt give her much attention, now she seemes to be chasing me, and im still playing hard to get, i kinda turned the tables on it, but what should i do now? i dont wanna find myself stuck in the friendzone

PS im really good friends with her friends, can this help me?:confused:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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aite, i dont think you should have told her you liked her, but she is interested, so why are you STILL playing hard to get? Well u can play hard to get, but dont act too disinterested, make a move dammit, she is agreeing to your plans, comin 2 ur place.
 
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