"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I've been DJing it but i dont know what to do now.

FranklinsTower

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Ok, so there was this girl i was chasing, its been on and off, it started off, i was really interested and she seemed kinda iffy about it all, so i hooked up with her and it made everything more comfortable, but i still felt i was chasing her, so last week i told her i really liked her, but she said she didnt like me like that but im awesome, so 2 days later she signs online and im's me (she never did that i always initiated the conversation) so shes like lets hang out tonight!, so i was like umm maybe, ill think about it she was calling like a million times, wondering if we were chillen , and i made her meet me instead of me coming to her house, when i got there she was all dolled up, and i didnt give her much attention, now she seemes to be chasing me, and im still playing hard to get, i kinda turned the tables on it, but what should i do now? i dont wanna find myself stuck in the friendzone

PS im really good friends with her friends, can this help me?:confused:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Microphone Fiend

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aite, i dont think you should have told her you liked her, but she is interested, so why are you STILL playing hard to get? Well u can play hard to get, but dont act too disinterested, make a move dammit, she is agreeing to your plans, comin 2 ur place.
 
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