"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I've been C*CK Blocked

Stforeman

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Here's the deal:
I know a girl through a good buddy of mine. When he's around us guys, he acts like he doesn't want her, he brags that she begs him for play, etc. I figured I would do him the favor of sliding in.

So I indiscreatly give her my number and tolled her to call me if she ever wanted to hang out.

Two days went by and she invited me to the beach that afternoon. She told our mutual friend that she's going to the beach with me and that he's invited. He got upset with her and said he didn't wanna go. Later that day the sun went up and cancelled our beach plans.

A couple days later she called wanting to do something together. I offered that she could come over and watch a movie. After watching the movie we cuddled then eventually started making out.

(keep in mind that I have heavily researched from this site and my game is at it's peak)

After kissing, she is convinced that I'm a "casanova" and that I'm a big time player. I ask what she means and why she thinks that. She then tells me that, "Brad "aka:my buddy" has told me that she shouldn't hang with me cause I just try to get in everybody's pants"
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I DIDN'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY!!! This totally caught me off guard... what should I have said to keep the kissing going? She wants to hang out tonight, but I don't wanna get called out like that again.

Later that night she told me that Brad is the one always begging for pleasure. And that she only sees him as a friend.

Please help me out guys... thanks
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ethnomethodologist

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St I know you and your friends are trolls.

Where are you guys coming from? Is this the planned assault from the #pua chatroom, or is this a different group entirely?
 

wooly

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yea, i have no idea what to do but i know of guys like your freind, hes jealous and insecure and he obivously likes the girl(which im sure you know already).

mabye you should just blow it off when she brings it up, like shes crazy to think that. Saying bad stuff about your buddy won't help but he did already throw the unwritten buddy's before *****es rule out the window

the dumb thing is that this guy is ruining his chances by making you look bad, and im sure thats one of the reasons she just wants to be freinds with him.


this is my 2nd post btw, i just found this board and have some serious studying to do before summertime.
 

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"Yes, I'm a player, and you're going to be my 1,884th lay. I'm trying to lay 2,000 women before Labor Day, so I appreciate your help."
Exactly!
I still don't see why you guys get stuck in these situations? Just keep being relaxed and DO NOT EVER think about what you should say in some particular situation... I'll repeat someone's words again: "Being a DJ is not about routines".


Whenever a girl become serious, just act like it doesn't touch you (until you get to the point where it actually doesn't touch you at all). And remember - women are here to make our lives beautiful. There's no other way.
 

Stforeman

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Thanks for the input guys. When I get asked how many girls I've slept with I go with something like hck332. "I dunno babe, I stopped counting at like 30." If she brings it up tonight I'll roll it off just like yall said. Thanks again. :rock
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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