"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ive been a$$ raped

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ok i took my friend (whos really hott and ive liked for a while) on a date to the movies the other day it went well at the end of the movie we made out
i was really happy i was like wow im gonna get a relationship with this girl
WRONG!!!! i asked her out the other day and she said that she doesnt wanna end up hurting me over the summer (a friend of ours is comming down from vriginia) and i think she just has the hotts for him and wants to save me for another time . WTF im pretty pissed i really like her and were friends so we hang out quite a bit what should i do? i wanna date her but i dont wanna get hurt any more . fellow djs i need your guidence
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You're acting like this is the only chick in your phone book.
 

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Look man, I really know how it feels to be in love and to be hurt by that special girl... but believe me, it's not worth of, not her, not anyone in this world.
I have found the secret formula that worx in these cases (at least 4 me)! I usually would go out with firends, when i'm hurt, and find a new chick to deal with. I thank God that i'm not being that much emotional anymore.
Stop thinkin about ,yeah i know it's hard, but if you will not stop thinkin about her you'll suffer short and long term consequences.
i.e.: feelin needy, decrease in self-confidence, lack of humor, negative thoughts, and many more... AND as a result of all this you'll only get worse with girls!
Now think about it! Is that girl, i mean, is there a girl worth of it? I dont think so!
 

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haha i read the "i've been ass raped" thing and i saw the frown and i freaked out. heh not serious there, just another afc thread
 

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haha this happens every once in a while. i thought everyone had seen that movie, its the greatest.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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eh. Office Space is okay.

This post needs one quick label. Oneitis. Find some other girls man. Simple as that.
 

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what can i say, virginia has some hotties.
i love the women of virginia.
but ehy dont compare to those out in california. :)
NEXT her, show her she means nothing to u and get some other poontang. u really want to be tied to pvssy during the summer when you live IN FLORIDA? do u know the oppertunity that comes along with vacation-girls? all they want is that cack bro, and u got the filling to stuff that turkey.
enjoy.
 

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PLEASE STOP TAKING THESE GIRLS TO THE MOVIES!

I know they have to be tired of this, show her how original you guys are... PLEASE! and take her somewhere no highschooler would ever take a date.

the ZOO
 

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hi
i think u should give ur self some importance , she isnt the only girl on the planet.
Be a man , dont be too needy and dont show any hesitation.If she dosnt wanna , it's not the end of the world , go find ur self a dozen other girls.And am sure , when she notice u r no longer near her , she will start missing u , and calling u ;).
i've been through the same situation.
 

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thanks to all of you i can really make a decision with all this info
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yourself said:
PLEASE STOP TAKING THESE GIRLS TO THE MOVIES!

I know they have to be tired of this, show her how original you guys are... PLEASE! and take her somewhere no highschooler would ever take a date.

the ZOO

Too much walking at the Zoo. I'm burned out enough as it is.
 

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"You're acting like this is the only chick in your phone book."

Bam.
 
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