"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ive been a$$ raped

cablecow15

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ok i took my friend (whos really hott and ive liked for a while) on a date to the movies the other day it went well at the end of the movie we made out
i was really happy i was like wow im gonna get a relationship with this girl
WRONG!!!! i asked her out the other day and she said that she doesnt wanna end up hurting me over the summer (a friend of ours is comming down from vriginia) and i think she just has the hotts for him and wants to save me for another time . WTF im pretty pissed i really like her and were friends so we hang out quite a bit what should i do? i wanna date her but i dont wanna get hurt any more . fellow djs i need your guidence
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You're acting like this is the only chick in your phone book.
 

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Look man, I really know how it feels to be in love and to be hurt by that special girl... but believe me, it's not worth of, not her, not anyone in this world.
I have found the secret formula that worx in these cases (at least 4 me)! I usually would go out with firends, when i'm hurt, and find a new chick to deal with. I thank God that i'm not being that much emotional anymore.
Stop thinkin about ,yeah i know it's hard, but if you will not stop thinkin about her you'll suffer short and long term consequences.
i.e.: feelin needy, decrease in self-confidence, lack of humor, negative thoughts, and many more... AND as a result of all this you'll only get worse with girls!
Now think about it! Is that girl, i mean, is there a girl worth of it? I dont think so!
 

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haha i read the "i've been ass raped" thing and i saw the frown and i freaked out. heh not serious there, just another afc thread
 

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haha this happens every once in a while. i thought everyone had seen that movie, its the greatest.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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eh. Office Space is okay.

This post needs one quick label. Oneitis. Find some other girls man. Simple as that.
 

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what can i say, virginia has some hotties.
i love the women of virginia.
but ehy dont compare to those out in california. :)
NEXT her, show her she means nothing to u and get some other poontang. u really want to be tied to pvssy during the summer when you live IN FLORIDA? do u know the oppertunity that comes along with vacation-girls? all they want is that cack bro, and u got the filling to stuff that turkey.
enjoy.
 

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PLEASE STOP TAKING THESE GIRLS TO THE MOVIES!

I know they have to be tired of this, show her how original you guys are... PLEASE! and take her somewhere no highschooler would ever take a date.

the ZOO
 

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hi
i think u should give ur self some importance , she isnt the only girl on the planet.
Be a man , dont be too needy and dont show any hesitation.If she dosnt wanna , it's not the end of the world , go find ur self a dozen other girls.And am sure , when she notice u r no longer near her , she will start missing u , and calling u ;).
i've been through the same situation.
 

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thanks to all of you i can really make a decision with all this info
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yourself said:
PLEASE STOP TAKING THESE GIRLS TO THE MOVIES!

I know they have to be tired of this, show her how original you guys are... PLEASE! and take her somewhere no highschooler would ever take a date.

the ZOO

Too much walking at the Zoo. I'm burned out enough as it is.
 

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"You're acting like this is the only chick in your phone book."

Bam.
 
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