I've Become Desensitized to Rejection. But How?

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Maybe but that's just semantics. My point is that it is not personal and isn't about you.

It is semantics, but semantics are important. The words you use can change your mindset. Negative words like 'rejection' carry a different emotional heft than more neutral scientific terms like 'preselection error'. So, using 'preselection error', you can just stay detached and continue unencumbered by the emotional weight of being 'rejected'.

 

[corrector]

I've been asked that.

Sometimes if I ask if they are single, they will hit me with the "are you single? ".

My response: It's complicated

You mean its a mess. Alpha males dont have a "mess". Alpha males dont have Jezebel wives, they have submissive wives. You can not tame your own wife so you are coping.

You like breasts because you have mommy issues because your wife is controlling like your mother. You go after 74 year old women because that is mommy's age. You need help.

 

[JoyDivision1990]

Hey Venom, I admire your supreme confidence and directness and not knocking Mode One necessarily, but assuming sucking an attractive large-chested chick's tits is the ultimate goal, why engage in a method like Mode One that renders rejection more times than not? And like you said, in some instances the authorities called. Would not a more subtle approach render you better results?

I dunno man, in the instances you've posted, it seems to me the reason you got rejected was due to how direct you were NOT because of your looks or because she didn't find your attractive. Obviously they found you attractive and were receptive to engaging, it was after you Mode One'd them that they rejected.

Do you get off on Mode One-ing even when rejected? Does it feel like more of an accomplishment when a chick responds positively to it and let's you suck her tits as opposed to say Mode Two?

Again not knocking just trying to understand the mindset assuming sucking her tits is the actual goal.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

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This is gonna be my last time addressing you.

You mean its a mess. Alpha males dont have a "mess". Alpha males dont have Jezebel wives, they have submissive wives. You can not tame your own wife so you are coping.

Even pimps can relate to problem ho's.

And I don't want to tame her.

I let her do her, because I am damn sure doing me.

You like breasts because you have mommy issues because your wife is controlling like your mother.

My mother wasn't controlling.

You go after 74 year old women because that is mommy's age. You need help.

I go after the titties.

The age of the women varies.

From 18-74.

I want'em all!!

Now please, go find another woman at work that you can talk to for 2 hours, and run to the forum to tell your sympathy club about it.

You are a bonafided beta male, which is disgusting to a man of my caliber.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Hey Venom, I admire your supreme confidence and directness and not knocking Mode One necessarily, but assuming sucking an attractive large-chested chick's tits is the ultimate goal

Not necessarily the ultimate goal...more like first priority.

, why engage in a method like Mode One that renders rejection more times than not?

Keep in mind that generally speaking, a man is going to get rejected more times than not whether he goes Mode One or not.

Case point; most guys here do not follow Mode One philosophy and in their relationship pursuits, they still get rejected at a lower rate than I.

Mode One, whether I get rejected or not, allows me to go out with a bang...it helps take away the sting of rejection.

Mode One allows me to still feel in control, even WHEN I get rejected.

That, my friend, is power.

And like you said, in some instances the authorities called.

Bro, out of 100 instances, authorities were called only 3 times.

That doesn't qualify to be called "some", in this context.

3 bad apples doesn't spoil the rest of the 97.

Would not a more subtle approach render you better results?

Ok, so here is my challenge to you..

Tell me, if I see a woman and want to suck her tits, how can I bring this to her attention WITHOUT putting too much of my time or any of my money at risk for the potential of a loss with no return?

I'll wait.

I dunno man, in the instances you've posted, it seems to me the reason you got rejected was due to how direct you were NOT because of your looks or because she didn't find your attractive. Obviously they found you attractive and were receptive to engaging, it was after you Mode One'd them that they rejected.

Easy to assume. Hard to prove.

And again, if you can tell me how can I get my message across without investing too much time and any money... I will be glad to listen.

Do you get off on Mode One-ing even when rejected?

I get off on telling a woman my desires, and anticipating her reaction.

Yes, that is an adrenaline rush.

And remember, Mode 2 guys get rejected just as often (if not more) than Mode One guys.

At the end of the day, either the woman is going to FUK with you, or not.

Does it feel like more of an accomplishment when a chick responds positively to it and let's you suck her tits as opposed to say Mode Two?

Yes, it absolutely positively does feel like more of an accomplishment.

Again not knocking just trying to understand the mindset assuming sucking her tits is the actual goal.

No doubt.

The mindset is this; you have to understand that some women don't mind keeping guys around as buddies...pals...friends.

Where do you think the concept of "friends zone" came from?

Mode One ensures that you are not friends zoned. In fact, it ensures that you will not be used for your non sexual time, money, resources, and companionship.

There are women out there (whom ARC calls "manipulative timewasters") who have no problem using guys for those things.

Mode One is the ultimate "If you ain't fuking me, then don't FUK with me" cheat code.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Tell me, if I see a woman and want to suck her tits, how can I bring this to her attention WITHOUT putting too much of my time or any of my money at risk for the potential of a loss with no return?

I'll wait.



Easy to assume. Hard to prove.

And again, if you can tell me how can I get my message across without investing too much time and any money... I will be glad to listen.


Mode One is the ultimate "If you ain't fuking me, then don't FUK with me" cheat code.

Get some kind of back massaging device, put it in your cart, approach the target and asks if she's tried it. Lol.