"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've become a whiny *****

Nobody

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I’ve been going out with my girlfriend for four months. She’s shy, and I use to be extremely confident but now, I’ve become an AFC. I overreact to all the smallest ****. She talks to her friend instead of me, she walks away before I do, she doesn’t hang out with me when we go to Disney World – she hangs with her friends. You could even say she’s the ultimate DJuanita… or maybe it’s better to say I’m her little *****. I’ve become a whiny *****, and I just can’t stop myself. Also, she's quiet so I usually end up speaking too much and say too many stupid AFC things that lose me power. I think I’m just infatuated with her, and will never quit being this *****. Somebody knock sense into me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dre007

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wow dude..

ok first off, stop complaining and whining. u sound like a little girl.
if she is shy as you said, how would she be a don juanita? you can easily
talk to her if she is shy and take control of certain situations. i dont get how she is making you her *****. you have to wear the pants of the relationship and take charge.
 

Crazy Asian

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stop whining
take charge
don't talk too much
 

Gubby

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Sounds like you can do with reading Double Your Dating, it's about the antidote to your particular affliction I think mate.

You can pay for it (50$ or something) at doubleyourdating dot com, or you might even dowload it illegaly for free, though who could condone such evil?
 
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