I’ve been going out with my girlfriend for four months. She’s shy, and I use to be extremely confident but now, I’ve become an AFC. I overreact to all the smallest ****. She talks to her friend instead of me, she walks away before I do, she doesn’t hang out with me when we go to Disney World – she hangs with her friends. You could even say she’s the ultimate DJuanita… or maybe it’s better to say I’m her little *****. I’ve become a whiny *****, and I just can’t stop myself. Also, she's quiet so I usually end up speaking too much and say too many stupid AFC things that lose me power. I think I’m just infatuated with her, and will never quit being this *****. Somebody knock sense into me.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I've become a whiny *****
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