"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

I've asked, but no answer

T|CK

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 16, 2008
Messages
87
Reaction score
0
I'm really thinking about saying no to tonight because I can't stand this guy that's dating her best friend, and I really don't want to hang out with him.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

Joined
Dec 18, 2007
Messages
376
Reaction score
18
T|CK said:
The problem I had with doing that is that she's a devout Christian, and I didn't know how to handle her. If she was just a regular girl, I would have invited her to a beer drinking, fun time, party.

But now looking back to it all, I could never be myself around her anyway. No big deal.

Can I ask a important question here?

Why in the holy fruck would you even wanna date a devout christian? Your not a jesus freak are you? If so why are you in this den of cut throats and pvssy thieves?

Are you one of those weak men who only want a virgin because you can't stand the thought of another man coming before you?

sup?
 

Igetit!

Moderator
Joined
Jul 13, 2008
Messages
2,880
Reaction score
920
Location
The United State of Texas
T|CK said:
I'm really thinking about saying no to tonight because I can't stand this guy that's dating her best friend, and I really don't want to hang out with him.
WHAT!???

You mean after of all the time,all the effort,and all of the energy we put into our responses to this thread,now you're not even going to date her? Talk about a trip. Man,I feel jipped. I should get rep. points simply for the amount of posts and info I put into this thread.:confused:

Well,it's your decision. If you don't want to date her,then don't date her. But everything I said still stands for her or whoever it is you want to date.
 

Mavrick

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 1, 2008
Messages
902
Reaction score
43
Igetit! said:
WHAT!???

You mean after of all the time,all the effort,and all of the energy we put into our responses to this thread,now you're not even going to date her? Talk about a trip. Man,I feel jipped. I should get rep. points simply for the amount of posts and info I put into this thread.:confused:

Well,it's your decision. If you don't want to date her,then don't date her. But everything I said still stands for her or whoever it is you want to date.
Haha... that's funny. I'll rep you for your troubles.
 

T|CK

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 16, 2008
Messages
87
Reaction score
0
Well, I decided to go with her, and we had a great new year celebration. We ended up making out at her place. There wasn't anything more than kissing and heavy petting, but it went well none the less.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Top