"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I've asked, but no answer
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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T|CK said:
Can I ask a important question here?
Why in the holy fruck would you even wanna date a devout christian? Your not a jesus freak are you? If so why are you in this den of cut throats and pvssy thieves?
Are you one of those weak men who only want a virgin because you can't stand the thought of another man coming before you?
sup?
Igetit!
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WHAT!???T|CK said:
You mean after of all the time,all the effort,and all of the energy we put into our responses to this thread,now you're not even going to date her? Talk about a trip. Man,I feel jipped. I should get rep. points simply for the amount of posts and info I put into this thread.
Well,it's your decision. If you don't want to date her,then don't date her. But everything I said still stands for her or whoever it is you want to date.
Haha... that's funny. I'll rep you for your troubles.Igetit! said:WHAT!???
You mean after of all the time,all the effort,and all of the energy we put into our responses to this thread,now you're not even going to date her? Talk about a trip. Man,I feel jipped. I should get rep. points simply for the amount of posts and info I put into this thread.
Well,it's your decision. If you don't want to date her,then don't date her. But everything I said still stands for her or whoever it is you want to date.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.