"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It's your last day

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A reflection on the atmosphere and current state of affairs for many individuals (men/women). Human beings are living life like there's a second chance. There's no second chance at this. There's no reason to hesitate. Get stuck on mistakes or shortcomings. There's no second chance at life. This is it. Whether it's going after that girl you saw at the mall, or more important things like taking huge risks in ones life and or job. There's no reason not to. Because at the end of the day when we're older an wiser the time will be gone.
Every day that passes indeed was our last
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A reflection on the atmosphere and current state of affairs for many individuals (men/women). Human beings are living life like there's a second chance. There's no second chance at this. There's no reason to hesitate. Get stuck on mistakes or shortcomings. There's no second chance at life. This is it. Whether it's going after that girl you saw at the mall, or more important things like taking huge risks in ones life and or job. There's no reason not to. Because at the end of the day when we're older an wiser the time will be gone.
Every day that passes indeed was our last
you didnt hear about afterlife?
 

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Death is either a never ending sleep or merely a change of location. Neither of which concerns us or affects the outcome of the current life we live
 

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Death is either a never ending sleep or merely a change of location. Neither of which concerns us or affects the outcome of the current life we live
You will live for eternity if God will forgive you. Not sure why would you say we have only one life. Thats really passive aggresive to majority of the world, Christians, especially saying this on Sunday
 

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Just as I can not assure you that a God does not exist. I can not assure you that a God does exist. You cannot assure me that your God exist.
I strongly believe in a God and a greater creative creature. Now the topic of structurized religion is a different one. And a messy one at that
How were egypt pyramids made? Aliens or Gods? I vote human strength, but majority seems to think different

PS you could also say in the end it doesnt matter if you tried or not, if you failed or not, because it ended
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Humans made the pyramids. Who the **** do you think I am. I'm not a conspiracy theorist.
It does matter because the highest glory a human could ever achieve is excellence
Yeah thats your opinion and i respect it but no, for me easy life is more than i can think of.
 

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A reflection on the atmosphere and current state of affairs for many individuals (men/women). Human beings are living life like there's a second chance. There's no second chance at this. There's no reason to hesitate. Get stuck on mistakes or shortcomings. There's no second chance at life. This is it. Whether it's going after that girl you saw at the mall, or more important things like taking huge risks in ones life and or job. There's no reason not to. Because at the end of the day when we're older an wiser the time will be gone.
Every day that passes indeed was our last
Living in the moment

Keep training and practicing

Excellence will come if you live like it was your last day and you did something about it
 

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Nickelback will tell you what you should be doing, lol
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If this was my last day on earth, I'm not so sure I would spend it banging a girl, or practicing pickup.
 

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If this was my last day on earth, I'm not so sure I would spend it banging a girl, or practicing pickup.
Please read my post again. Show me where I focus on getting women and not self improvement and enjoying a true fulfilling life
 
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