"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Its the A that makes the FC

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Guys get all excited about Alpha this and Alpha that. Its by avoiding average that guys get girls not by being alpha.

No amount of "Alpha" is getting you jack. If you are confident it shows and if you are above average that shows too.

If you are getting what you want in life that shows too. That is what true alpha is. It isn't pushing your way past shoppers to get to the blue light special. Its being truely confident and truely happy with what you have. If you are then you project the right vibe.

If you are no you do not.

remember Average==Frusted Chump
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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when you are living a happy life, you don't think about what you did
 
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Yeah, I definately think a lot of people on this site buy into the whole alpha thing too much. I don't care if I'm beta, omega, alpha, optimus prime, whatever, just as long as I'm enjoying life. Labels aren't for me. Nature is random. Nothing is absolute. I don't think anyone can be totally alpha anyway.
 
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good post

As long as I am happy with my entire life I will die a happy man. And when I mean happy I mean die without regrets.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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