Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
you know I hate sarcasm!Espi said:
Don't bit the hand that feeds you, man.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
its my opinion!Paradigm Artisan said:
yeah but i don't have any friends?so how am I gonna have fun?Chosen1 said:
Yea, and it was really un needed. Learn some diplomacy first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Neither do I. They get in the way.
Look don't come to my thread if your not gonna post advice,your just posting insults im here for advice!Not to be critized or insulted so if you don't got advice or tips to post on MY thread then don't post AT ALL!Paradigm Artisan said:
Well I feel like I need friends to go to parties and walk around enjoying life and the weather maybe its because I live in a small city.WesCottII said:
EXACTLY!Man your life seems fun my city there is never parties you can walk into and not enough guys to make friends I wanna move to a big citie parties everywhere and beach parties everywhere,dude I wish I knew you so me and you would be busy for the weekend.girlsarecrazy said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
hmm perfect tips but only problem is im not old enough to go to clubs until next year but i'll try to get a fake ID from my cousin he looks like me alotskip2mylou781 said:
They also have a job at your local publix. They are cashiers. im not gonna argue your defintely right about everything.But remeber these aren't excuses,sh*t your right!Dude I defintely do gotta go outside soon so know any clubs for teens im not 18 until next year.Paradigm Artisan said:You want advice? Walk outside your fvcking door. I garuntee you there will a women somewhere in the outside world.
Your hungry? Then you need to go shopping. Guess what? Women shop too.
You need to get fit? Go to the gym. Guess what? Women are at the gym. Why? Because women have fitness goals to. And to further it. Most of them already look good because they have been to the gym before.
You need some new clothes? Go to the mall. Guess what? Women are at the mall in packs. You need clothes, women are ADDICTED to clothes shopping.
And let's say you are the fittest, most well fed, and handsome guy on earth. Your telling me that there are no social gathering in your town/city? That's bullsh!t, I've sarged in small towns. People will meet ANYWHERE to hang out. Even if it's a corner store, but most likely there is a club near you.
Don't have friends? You don't need them. Because at the end of the night. You won't be fvcking your friends. (I hope not, anyway). Stop with the excuses. There are 3 billion (at least) women on this earth. And your telling me you can't find one? You haven't looked, each city is different.
And don't get me wrong, I didn't mean to flame you before. I was saying not to expect much from people you just insulted, despite the reason.
But seriously, you want advice? Drop the fvcking mouse, and figure it out for yourself.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.