"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ok, I have never asked a girl out in my life. Until today. I walked up to this HB9 and just said "Do you want to go out sometime". And that was it. I got her #. Heck i'm not even sure that is her real # LOL(i haven't called her yet). But i don't care, i am proud to now have the balls to do it!

That is all you have to do, it is so easy. Stop reading this and go out and get a # for yourself!Now!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well I'm glad you got up the nerve to get her number. That's progress!

If the number isn't real, then at least you were able to get up the nerve. I wouldn't concentrate too much at this point to get the chick, but to get the SKILL. And you are doing that, my friend. Keep it up!
 
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Yeah, I asked girls out before, but it never worked out because I acted like an AFC all needy, and smothering. I tried too hard. I didnt understand what that meant before because I thought girls loved constant attention. Now I know thats wrong.

I havent asked a girl out yet with my "new" persona but Im sure things will go much much better since I act normal now instead of weird.
 
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shi t get it done bro

im looking forward to starting college in a few weeks so many girls to mac on. i think i might use your method! this should go in the djb.

so many girls - so many hot girls - oh god...
 
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Just a suggestion........you might want to talk a tiny bit first before you ask for ehr number.

Ninja out
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What the heck is an HB9?
 
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Originally posted by jason999
What the heck is an HB9?
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A seriously hot chick.

But congrats QuIjebo, you're already on your way to self confidence and picking up chicks.
 
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Hahahahhah! Classic!!! Congrats to you Q.

But it's still a good idea to read the DJ Bible and get your game to a higher skill level. The chances of that happening are pretty low compared to gaming them first.
 
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Originally posted by QuIjebo
Ok, I have never asked a girl out in my life. Until today. I walked up to this HB9 and just said "Do you want to go out sometime". And that was it. I got her #. Heck i'm not even sure that is her real # LOL(i haven't called her yet). But i don't care, i am proud to now have the balls to do it!

That is all you have to do, it is so easy. Stop reading this and go out and get a # for yourself!Now!!
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It seriously is easy. Keep it up with this attitude ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yes, talking to women is easy, espicially when you figure out that hot chikcs are just like the rest of us, and have issues like the rest of us, then it really gets easy
 
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How about this. Next time you see a HB9, picture her irregular nippulars. One big like a cherry and one small like a mole. Point to her t*ts and laugh at her because the smaller one has hair growing out of it.
 
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